How To Make Her Love You Forever?
7 Easy Ways to Make Your Girlfriend Feel Special.
It’s so important that we don’t hide our feelings, yes! It’s true that most of the people who hide their feelings are the ones who care the most. But how can that care be valued without being demonstrated?
It is the open feelings that mostly made a lot of people fall in love. When we notice that somebody is showing a special care for us, we will be automatically triggered to question ourselves, why he cares that way.
So beginning then, that person will be registered in our mind as a nice person, because not all are showing the same way, so he must be someone special, and then that is the starting point of a newly growing love.
You will start to become interested in knowing about his life, whether he has girl friend or not. When you find out that he’s free, your newly growing love will open a bit more, until sooner or later you will reach to the point of becoming lovers.
Now you are in a relationship, no matter how big or how little is your love with each other your in the situation where you are not anymore alone but with someone whom we can consider to be yours for a while or forever, it will only depend on how would you like it to be.
Hereby, I am creating this 7 simple ways to make your lover into forever.
1.You should not be ashamed to each other.
Don’t be like some other people that are hiding their real feelings and pretending that they don’t care but deep inside they care the most, which is very vital in a relationship, but only was not appreciated because of lack of demonstration.
You have to feel easy and comfortable when together, holding hands when walking, and kiss as many times you like everyday like you are kissing a baby child.
Touching each other is very important, whenever you are talking, do not do like talking with someone else, talk with your body close to each other, in other words,
you talk like you are whispering, that you need to almost kiss her ear just so that you can be heard, and by this way, you are watering the sprout of love to make it form its first young leaves.
2.You should be open about things you like.
You are in the process of building a relationship and both of you are also in observation on each other’s compatibility. So be open about things that you like and don’t like, so that you are giving her an idea what really you are in reality, if there something she likes and doesn’t like, you will notice it, right away as a natural reaction.
In this way, you are also going to let her show what really she is with her real attitude, and at least you have now a clue of what to do, to make your lover into forever.
You have to show that you appreciate all the good things she did, not only negative comments. Compliments as well her nice dress, her fragrant perfume, her nice hair etc. You have to do it in a heartfelt way, be specific and be genuine when you smile.
3. Stop Blaming Your Partner for Everything That’s Wrong.
It is so disgusting even on our self, when we hear being blame for something, even if it is really her fault, don’t be caught being noticed that you blame her for it, almost take part of what happened, and always take ownership of everything and make it like it’s your own fault.
Whether you are married or not, you have to respect your relationship like you’re already husband and wife. Remember the saying that says, Marriage is a relationship in which one person is always right and the other is the husband.
But it is inevitable that we blame somebody whenever we are upset, bored, disappointed, and stressed, specially when it’s about relationship.
So what happen next, is that we are thinking that it is her responsibility to change her ways to improve your differences.
Remember that the devil is just their which is the pride who is the popular star for breaking a lot of relationships, and you can not expect that to happen.
When pride prevails, nothing good can be expected anymore, so the best way to do is just to calm down and relax, give her the chance to settle down, because this is not happening everyday, it only started with the irritation for being blamed for something useless.
Sometimes, you’ve got to shut up, swallow your pride and make it like your own fault or wrong. It’s not called giving up, it’s a part of what is called growing up in a relationship.
4. Strengthen your relationship by creating an activities.
It’s good that in relationship, you will mix it with some activities. It’s nice to feel some relaxing moment, after a 20 minutes yoga, or a 30 minutes walking, biking together along the road, or a 30 minutes swimming on a pool.
There is nothing as relaxing as it is, that can boost your bodily system that leads to a happier, richer moments together.
Always show to her that your feelings of eagerness on her sexually, has never changed till so far, and with this you have implanted in her mind the feelings of being special and therefore, you will be special for her too.
Once we know we are special, we tend to feel a natural happiness created from our minds, and remember you can not find happiness but you can only create it.
The more happy you are, the more happy you will be. Every time we are happy, our body is producing a natural serotonin, If you don’t know what is this, this is the substance that is given to a person who has a depression problem.
Luckily we have it in our body as well, which is naturally produced whenever we are happy and whenever we smile genuinely.
5. Show your real attitude, and don’t hide it.
During the courtship time, we are trying to hide our natural weaknesses, our attitude, and our do’s and don’t, because at that moment you are in the process of winning her feelings.
We are trying to do the best that we can to surpass our own goodness. But that was before, it’s now the time to reveal, if there are really things that you are trying to avoid which you feel difficult to manage, you have to share it because it is she herself that can help you a lot about it.
Once we are honest of what we are, the person whom you shared will try to understand it, and will find a way to help you out.
Attitude is really just a small thing but it can make a big difference in a relationship. You become like a big burden to someone, if you have an attitude which is difficult to fathom. We need to fight for our self with it because your own enemy is just yourself.
Once everything is being shared and your girlfriend is already aware of it that this is your weakness, at that very moment she will be warned about it, and it can help your relationship to get stronger.
But make sure you will do your best to overcome this, if you were able to hide it while you were still courting, then you can also remove it from your self if you wish to.
So start correcting yourself without any help and you can make it. Your girlfriend’s patience as human being is limited, she can not bear with you forever with your attitude, you need to fix it by you own will, and the chances are, you can make your girlfriend into forever.
Conflict is normal, even healthy, it’s a spice of any relationship. What’s important is how you handle it. With the right tools and attitude, conflict becomes a gateway to a deeper intimacy—the chance to be seen and loved for who you truly are, to accept your mate’s adorable, vulnerable real self, and to build a strong union of relationship.
Be like those other happy couples, who tried to avoid verbalizing critical thoughts, keep discussions from escalating, and don’t use absolutes like “never” and “always.”
If a fight does start, try to change the subject, inject gentle humor, empathize or show your partner extra appreciation. It’s the time for you to learn when to come close and when to go away.
When somebody is hot you should try to be cool, this is not cowardice but this is a sign of respect that you acknowledge her as human being that there is really a time that we have a mood swing.
6. Know the right time before you argue.
You have to be kind and considerate not only with your girlfriend but also for everyone. When people are showing some unpleasant actions, you don’t need to argue right away.
If you notice some sudden changes of your girlfriend’s mood, try to empathize instead, there is maybe a deep reason for that. Wait the right time when she cools down or else nothing good will happen as an outcome.
If you know the right timing for arguing there will be no argument that will happen. An argument is triggered by the hotness of your mood, and once you are in a cool state, you can not think of arguing.
If you are this kind of person, I can guarantee you that you are capable of holding someone in your life for life.
It so nice to live with somebody who is loving, considerate, passionate, understanding, etc. Nobody ever wish to live without you.
7. Listen to learn to make your relationship last.
To keep a solid foundation of a relationship, you need to speak less and listen more. The more you talk the more likely you can speak some irritating words,
you may likely mention some disgusting words from the past which was gone for long, and once it’s mentioned it will cause a big argument of why you recalled this finished things.
All the past is over and gone, it must not take part in the present situation, so to avoid being mistakenly mentioning something unpleasant, try to be a listener not a talker.
Nobody likes people who keep on talking even if the conversation is already over. You can make a conversation last for long by listening than to talking, because most people like to talk than to listen.
So the secret to make your girlfriend like you is by listening her more and talking her less, because most women like to talk, it is their naturalism.
That’s why the saying says, The language is called the mother tongue, because the father has not given the chance to talk.
You have to decide right now that the woman with you will be your forever, you have to create a goal in your relationship.
You have to swear to God that you will not find somebody else anymore and you promise that you will love her as you love yourself.
This is in general, because it so happened normally that maybe some of you are experiencing an unsuccessful relationship which is very much okay.
There is really a situation that you meet someone whom you thought is the last but just passed like a history. Don’t worry it’s not your fault, it’s the stories fault that you have a bad end.
I don’t blame anyone for that, because I know that you don’t intend to do it, it’s the fate that made it. So now at this very moment, whoever is with you, or from wherever history you came from, you can start a new beginning with a lasting happy ending.
If you are now in the situation of having a girlfriend, a spouse, or any partner in a relationship which some of you could not qualify for earthly marriage because of some situations from the past, you don’t need to be guilty of it.
As long as you are truly loving each other, you are promising to not to find another one anymore that even in human standard you are not husband and wife because there is no marriage that binds you.
The good news is, in God standard you can still be considered husband and wife, because of your hearts which God sees that truly loving each other.
I like to prove it in the biblical aspect because I am including God in here, so let’s read the story of a Samaritan woman in
9 The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?” (For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.)
10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.”
11 The woman said to him, “Sir, you have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water?
12 Are you greater than our father Jacob? He gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did his sons and his livestock.”
13 Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again,
14 but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again.[b] The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”
15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water.”
16 Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.”
17 The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’;
18 for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.”
19 The woman said to him, “Sir, I perceive that you are a prophet.
20 Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship.” .
So with this proof from the bible is stating that God’s standard is based in who is the last one whom you loved the most, whether it’s first, second, third, forth, or fifth, congratulations! you are the registered couple in the eyes of God.
Again you are now couple, if both of you are really loving each other, and God knows it, because he can read your hearts and mind. And beginning today, you will commit adultery if you will find somebody else.
I know, it’s a little difficult for you to understand what I mean, but I believed you grasp a bit, an understanding, and the sacredness of committing a relationship.
God said to the Samaritan woman who innocently asked for a physical water while God was referring to a spiritual water that he will give them the water, but he wants her to bring her husband with her, not saying bring her boyfriend with her.
even though she denied having a husband, God called him husband because he knows their hearts, that they are truly loving each other.
So pay a big respect on your togetherness and companionship, you should not spoil your 5 to 10 years relationship by just a day problem. Whenever there is an argument, fix the source of it and never involve your innocent relationship.
So beginning today your counting for your anniversary, if you are married, it should start from the day you were together the first time.
Example: if you were married 5 years ago and before that you were together for 2 years before getting married, so meaning to say you are already all in all 7 years, but if not married so your counting is from the time you’re together till so far.
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I hope you learn a lesson from this content. if you have any questions feel free to write them below, and I will be more than happy to help you out.