Month: October 2021

All women are beautiful in different ways because the God who made them is perfect, so being beautiful is what God had intended them to be.

Yet, what really is meant by precious beauty?

The real beauty of a woman should not just be from the outside, but should be on the inside which is the most important ones to God.

However, we are now in the world where the people’s standard degree of importance in evaluating the beauty is by physical appearance.

Wherever you go nowadays, the popular topics of most people specially about movies, magazines, televisions, billboards, they are all talking about beautiful and pretty people.

Thereby, men and women but mostly women, are spending their thousands of dollars of money just for the sole objective which is to make their appearance beautified and more enhanced, through surgery.

So that is the very proof that the society nowadays, are more obsessed on the physical beauty, or the outward appearance of a person.

Is the beauty really be the most important thing for a woman?

On our era, beauty is playing a big role for women, as it is believed by some people that if a woman is beautiful, her future is much brighter than those who are not.

Anyway, the very fact is indisputable, for it is proven by reality.

Some companies when hiring employees are requiring pleasing personalities, even though not all but it’s true.

Therefore, beauty of a woman is giving her an advantage specially if she too is intelligent and knowledgeable.

All women are beautiful but it only takes the right person to see it.

The outer side of a woman’s beauty is just a small part that makes her called beautiful.

The real beauty can be found inside of a woman, and that beauty of hers on the inner side of her being is the one that completes her as a woman who is really beautiful.

This is what most people have neglected to see, for they are putting a bigger emphasis on physical appearance and have ignored the importance of the beauty within her.

 

What really is meant by outer beauty?

The definition of outer beauty varies differently in every place.

Some of them will only call a woman beautiful when she has a nice skin, perfect body, tall, and of course should be beautiful according to the standard of men.

Thus, women who would like to be included among these human standards of becoming beautiful, they are looking for ways to help them lose weight to have a perfect body, taking vitamins and applying lotions to make their skin nice, and sometimes go to doctors for cosmetic surgery just to make them achieve the standard.

 

Not all women are fortunate enough to have a physically appealing feature. However, they are still lucky because it’s not just the requirement for beauty.

Yet, most men fall in love with the woman according to what they see, while women fall in love with a man according to what they hear.

That’s why women are striving to be beautiful on the outside for this is what they know men are after of.

Women who are lucky to be physically beautiful should not rely on only of her beautiful face because there are also certain things to be added in order for you to be perfectly pretty.

One of those is being hygienic, it includes being fragrant from head to toe with the special emphasis on fresh smelling of breath.

Long hair is also another contributor for making a woman looked femininely.

Hair is like the roof, if the house has a nice roof it adds the look of a house to be more beautiful, that is the same with a woman.

Any woman with long hair is always looking beautiful.

1 Corinthians 11:15 but that if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For long hair is given to her as a covering.

And the last and final factor that is complementing the whole beauty of a woman to be called beautiful are the eyes for they are the lamp of the body that captivates most men.

Matthew 6:22 “The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are healthy, your whole body will be full of light.

 

What is meant by inner beauty?

There are many answers to this world widely asked question.

So far it is still making a lot of people confused due to some different deep explanation for it pertains some traits of a woman which is above and beyond her outer attractiveness.

The true beauty is in the inner man of a person which is only talking about the invisible part of the body but visible to the eyes of those who appreciated it.

Some have described it as the beauty demonstrated by the person’s character which sometimes have made some people to wonder why is she looking beautiful only for him while for others she’s not. If that’s the case, it means the woman is not very beautiful in the outside and you are captivated by her inner beauty.

One of the characteristics of the woman who has a beautiful inner man is shown by being tender, loving, kind, compassionate, sweet, thoughtful, unselfish, etc.,

Woman who is beautiful internally, can attract more people by her way of talking through the lovely tone of voice which is also part of the inner beauty.

People will admire to the beautiful woman first of all by her physical appearance but the inner qualities are more admired by them.

The very reason why there is an inner beauty is that there is an outer an inner man in a person.

1 Peter 3:4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.

Woman will be the most beautiful of all, if aside from being attractive inside and out, she should also be attractive in the eyes of God, and this is the most important among all.

Our physical appearance maybe in the sight of men very beautiful but since our body is corruptible, as a matter of fact our baby face skin will wrinkle when we grow old.

So definitely, the beautiful face outwardly will soon become physically ugly by time, but our inner man or inner beauty will never get old.

However, it is being renewed day by day, according to the book of:

2 Corinthians 4:16 Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.

Thanks so much for spending few minutes of your time reading this article, and I hope you’ve learned a lot pertaining the topic.

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The most common description we heard about dogs is that they are the man’s best friend.

They are the kind of animals that is in nature friendly and with a strong spirit of loyalty.

Humans have to be advised about respecting the rights of animals.

According to one of the animal behaviorists John Bradshaw, dogs are neither wolves nor furry humans, and the dog owners are fully responsible to ensure their dogs are psychologically healthy.

I used to be scared with dogs, because whenever I heard them barking I thought they are going to bite me.

But when I learned about their behaviors and feelings I then started to understand the meaning of their every reaction and movements according to how they behaved.

Dogs became the man’s best friend because of its being attentive and affectionate, towards their owners.

Thereby, whether you are the richest in the world or you are the poorest among the poor, it doesn’t at all matter for dogs, because they are not after the material things of this world, for as long as they feel that somebody cares for them they love them back unconditionally.

If you are looking for a perfect companion, there is no other as happy and loyal as dogs do.

So, they deserve to be loved like how they genuinely loved us back.

Their signs of love are very evident and clear, through wagging their tails back and forth, jumping, curling up to its owner, and wiggling to those that they love.

Dogs definitely love humans, but how dogs say I LOVE YOU?

We are fortunate enough however, that dogs are so demonstrative, they clearly communicate with their feelings and that is a clear sign that they are so bonded with you.

A lot of people didn’t know that the structures of dogs brain is the same with humans, dogs do produce emotions too.

Therefore, dogs have learned to express their infinite love, and they have appreciated the care you showed to them as being your pet and a friend.

Dogs enjoyed cuddling to us as much as we have enjoyed it. It is proven by science and other specialist that when dogs cuddle with you, it is their way of relieving stress.

Whenever we talk and feed them, we are boosting their oxytocin level.

Hence, some dogs because of their breed genetic history, are not used in cuddling, but most of the breeds are naturally affectionate with their owners.

There are some signs, gestures and behaviors that dogs are showing love to their owners which we need to understand in order for us to be aware that dogs also deserve to be loved like how we wanted to be.

So here are some of those that you need to keep in mind if you own the so called, man’s best friend.

 

Why dog yawns?

We have seen many times that dogs are yawning whenever we yawned and we thought that they too are feeling sleepy as well same as us

Yet one thing we don’t know is that, there is a special meaning of it, why they simultaneously yawn with us.

So whenever you yawned and your dog will yawn as well, that simply means your pet is emotionally bonded to you.

You will see how your dog loves you through the yawn they have shown in front of you.

Snoozing with you: There are times that you slept alone but when you woke up you’ve realized that your pet is sleeping with you too; that means they trust you so much like no one else.

There is nothing to worry about it, because it’s approved by science as a matter of fact, they have found some benefits of it which is to improve your sleep efficiency; having your pet close to you will help you to have a more relaxing rest.

Wagging their tail is usually interpreted as their friendliness but it’s not just like that nevertheless, it is also portraying a full range of emotions.

What do they mean when they wag their tails?

Wagging of tail is a sort of dog’s language to speak to us. It’s indicating a sign that your dog is open for an emotional engagement and interaction of what is going on around them.

There are different meanings of this and it all depends on the speed and the height of the wag.

 

 

A wag that is stiff and low is on the other hand a warning sign to us that your dog is tensed and restless and surely not in the right mood to be friendly.

Lower tail wagging means that they feel a bit nervous.

And the best wagging of their tail is the one that is held high, which is a sign of enthusiasm and confidence, that he’s happy and safe from everyone around him.

And the high tail with a fast wagging generally means the dog is alert and aroused.

But when the tail is wagging high and stiff with some other dog around, it could be displaying dominance.

It can also mean a territorial aggressive display if it occurs at the behind fences, inside the car, windows, door, etc.

Why dog likes to lean on you?

Dogs lean on you because they want to be close to you. Some small dogs like to be on your lap and cuddled while bigger ones do whatever they like just to get close in order to have a body contact with the owner.

Specialists believed that dogs touched and leaned to their owners for the purpose of emotional and physical support, they feel like there is someone who can protect and comfort them.

Leaning is a completely harmless behavior in dogs as it is usually a sign of comfort and love.

Veterinarian also have said that it’s part of the dogs way to tighten its bond with the owner through touching or body contact.

So once your dogs lean on you, it’s a sign of the highest form of trust.

Specialists believed that dogs leaned and touched their owners for physical and emotional support, seeing them as someone who can protect and comfort them.

The study that was published in science stated that dogs experienced a release of positive brain chemicals when they’re with humans they loved, and some veterinarians have said that they often try to tighten its bond through touch.

Do dogs like to be touched on their heads?

Majority of dog training experts are not allowing to go over dogs heads and try to pet them in that way.

Dogs natural perception whenever they are touched on the head is like they are threatened, specially if it’s just your first time meeting each other.

If you notice that he didn’t trust you yet, it’s better to give the dog a little more time to feel more comfortable with your presence.

If the dog has been with you for quite a long time already, you can notice while you are touching his head he’s just tolerating it and starts to close his eyes in appreciation and it’s a sign that your dog has definitely loved you back.

Dogs reaction when you leave:

If your dog just comely see you leaving the house it’s a sign that your dog trusts you and he’s aware that you are for sure still coming back.

Nevertheless, not all dogs have that kind of thinking, as some of them will feel anxious whenever you leave.

But some dogs are so attached to their owners and feel nervous or even anxious to see you leaving.

If you notice that your dog has this kind of feelings and behavior you need to consult the veterinarian’s advice about it.

Dog training experts have suggested that before leaving you have to do some special routine, like touching his head right before leaving, and upon coming back, then the dog will remember this and will not worry so much when you leave because as you touched his head you mean you are coming back.

Train your dog by leaving for a short period, touch his head then come back, then slowly increase the time you spent outside until the dog will learn that when you leave you are still coming back and in this way you will relieve his feeling of anxiety and discomfort.

If dogs are sticking out their tongues and raising their eyebrows:

These are their ways or facial movements when humans are looking at them.

They can raise their eyebrows to make their eyes bigger then show their tongue, as a way to make us understand their true power of love; even on the presence of food, could not matter on whatsoever on this kind of expression.

Another study as well had published on the general science that confirmed about your furry friend of their understanding not only to your words but also to the tone of your speech too.

So your dogs have certainly appreciated all your long love monologues, like ‘Oh your such a good boy, yes you are.’ then give your dog a nice treat.

Your dog seems like crazy when you come back, why?

The department of animal and environment and health had conducted a series of experimentation.

Well those experiments proved that the excitement and warm love is indicating that your dog is massively invested in you.

Every time you come home your dog’s emotion starts a certain process in their bodies that will increase the social hormone oxytocin and decreasing the stress hormone cortisol.

So always spend some time to interact with your dog in both physical and verbal as soon as you come home.

Then, the oxytocin level will be maintained as high as it is for longer period.

Why dogs are gazing into your eyes?

Scientists from the department of animal science and bio technology together with the other specialists have conducted a study that shows how dogs create and develop an emotional connection with human being through staring into your eyes.

This sort of silent contact is increasing the level of the social hormone called oxytocin between humans and dogs.

Scientists have also discovered that the dogs can acquire a human like mood of communication during the domestication process where dogs have already started to tighten their bond for the future owners.

Why dogs are sometimes bringing you their favorite toys?

Dogs are naturally possessive about their toys, and no one can easily take it away from them once they like it so much.

But when you see your dogs proudly keeping it from being taken by other dogs and yet, he is just easily giving it to you, you can be sure that your pet’s love is so strong and unconditional.

Other training experts have interpreted it as a declaration of endless trust, and the expression of the dog’s love towards the owners.

Same as humans, dogs have needs and wants, and they are willing to give their full loyalty and affection to whoever that can fulfill it.

Our dogs do love us because we love them by providing for them their needs not only for food and drinks but also for the love and care which they love the most.

Not all relationships and bonds between pets and owners are the same for some are much richer, deeper and stronger than others.

Some dog owners are creating a close connection through spending more quality time with their dogs.

The mutual trust between pet and owner is the basis of any quality relationship, between dogs and humans.

I am sure that there are dog owners whose dogs can do a lot more than what are mentioned in this article.

Congratulations! You have trained it so you deserved it, your dog can be considered special and one of a kind.

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It seemed to have no more chance for the virus to run out for it continued to multiply and killed more people until there is something that can be discovered which will be able to completely stop it from existing.

There is still a big part of the world’s population nowadays that is experiencing lockdown due to COVID-19 virus.

As of the moment we don’t have the sure idea of how to put an end to this horrifying virus, so this virus will stay with us just like other viruses where our bodies have already become immune due to the protection that we have in our  bodies because of the vaccines that we had since we were kids.

In the world today, because of the pandemic, people have come out with the question in their minds which is, How To Avoid Covid 19 Virus?

However, even though eradicating them is quite impossible for now, we have already the available effective vaccines for our protection.

Since kids, we all were already used for vaccination because of polio, measles, smallpox, etc.

So it’s not anymore new to us, and we are used to it, because it’s a compulsory requirement for all children.

Vaccines are just vaccines and we don’t need to be scared about it, as long as we are healthy, there is no need for us to be worried, for our body had been tested already to receive it without any adverse reaction.

As we all know, this virus is very infectious, and it’s been known by the whole people in the world.

What we don’t know if what exactly is the 100 percent cure or the vaccine that can protect us with a 100 percent guarantee which is so far not possible.

We are still in the era of experimentation, but the good news is that,

most of those that are vaccinated with COVID-19 have the fewer cases of dying with the virus.

Our bodies are developing antibodies, but still we are not 100 percent sure how protective they are to us.

It can only be tested once we can be infected with Covid-19 and will recover naturally after few days or weeks in quarantine.

So our immune system is proving that through our antibodies we are temporarily protected, but the question is, how long will that protection last?

If we are only staying at home, we don’t need to worry so much, but the problem is that, it is not possible for we really need to go out to work for our subsistence.

We are now surrounded with the virus, and we don’t know how to avoid them because they are invisible.

Our only protection from it is to keep on wearing mask, because we don’t know that the surrounding people are carrying it.

The world where we are now is not anymore the same as the one we had before.

Smallpox, measles, chickenpox, polio, and many others are still with us up to now, but we just didn’t notice them because we are already vaccinated in order for our body to become immune to them.

So in the case of corona virus, there is no other way for protecting us from getting infected other than vaccination.

All we have to do is to trust them who discovered the vaccines, because the mere purpose for it is to protect us from dying.

Yes, our antibodies will help to protect us, but it’s protection is not guaranteeing for us to survive, once we can be infected.

We have to be wise enough in preserving our health and life, let’s learn to accept the fact that it’s not an ordinary virus, as a matter of fact it killed millions of people in the whole world.

Drinking hot water may help a bit but most of them will just make you pee more often.

However, maintaining physical distancing, washing hands, wearing face shield and mask are still the best ways for our protection.

Not unless you are in close contact with those that are infected with covid -19, you don’t need to waste your sanitizing agents to sanitize your house frequently touch areas, but it’s a good idea to change your clothes and take shower if you had been mingling with the crowd as a precautionary measure for the sake of the rest of your family who deserves to be protected from it and be healthy.

We don’t need to be panicky, whatever you are handling: can be money, ATM’s, cellphones, or anything that are touched by other people, you just have to wash your hands or sanitized it before touching any parts of your body or to the members of your family.

Coronavirus is not like other known bacteria and it’s not even a food-borne infection, but it’s a droplet-related infection with the same effect as flu.

Coronavirus infection can’t be caught from any food packaging, from drive through food, or anything that you purchase from any restaurants because there is no record of risk about corona virus being transmitted by food.

Coronavirus can’t survive for long in the air, because they need host because that respiratory droplet infection would require close contact.

Using ordinary soap is sufficient enough to use for corona virus protection and you don’t need any antibacterial soap for virus is different than bacteria.

You don’t need to worry about the food you buy outside but it’s a good practice to heat it all up for precautionary purposes and for better taste of the food.

It’s not proven to be true that taking ginger and sugarcane juice as well as vinegar can protect you from being infected, for they are only pertaining immunity and not exactly for cure.

Inside the house you don’t need to wear mask for they are only interfering your breathing and the level of oxygen that you can inhale. Therefore, wear your mask only when you are in a crowd or in a place where there are known people infected with the virus.

If I were to choose I would prefer using face shield only than mask, because aside from being less in suffocation it can also protect your eyes from infection.

It is much better to not to wear gloves as long as you keep on washing hands as often as possible.

Wearing gloves will make you sometimes rely on it and will forget to wash hands without changing it.

It’s easier for the virus to accumulate into the gloves and the transmission is easier once you touch your face.

There is now any better substitute than washing hands regularly with soap and water.

COVID-19 vaccines are safe

Take advantage of the free COVID-19 vaccines that are being offered by our government nowadays.

The sole intention for that is for our protection from the virus and not for harming our health and life.

They want us to live not to die as others thought it to be, we have to trust them for its effectiveness and purpose of why we need to be vaccinated.

COVID-19 vaccines development is quite a little faster than the other vaccines ever discovered, but all sorts of steps were done just to make sure for its effectiveness and safety.

The vaccines that are now available for us are not experimental. It passed with all the clinical trials and levels being required, and it’s developed by not a beginners’ study, but by science who had been experiencing about its study for decades.

Before using it for humans, experts had first did a lot of extensive testing and follow up, and it’s proven to be safe and effective as most people around the globe have actually experienced by themselves.

Even up to this time COVID-19 vaccines continued to receive and undergo the strict safety monitoring for its efficacy.

COVID-19 vaccines are really effective, it proved to have saved a lot of lives in the world.

We should not listen to the negative effects news, and even sometimes fake news that are only scaring people to get vaccinated.

We should take into consideration the reports of the majorities who benefited the best result by recovering from infections.

There are already about 6.6 billion shots given to the world as of today October 16, 2021.

Some people would like to share their fears of being vaccinated by sharing all the negative reports they have collected like telling that there are a lot of people who died after vaccination.

COVID-19 vaccine deaths are never higher than the COVID-19 deaths.

We have so far about 7.9 billion people in the world and already about 7.96 billion shots given to people.

There is something about the COVID-19 vaccine that some people have misunderstood. They thought that once you are already vaccinated you will not be tested positive in swab test or PCR test.

Thereby, it caused them to lose their trust and interest of being vaccinated because of not being understood about function of the vaccine in the body.

COVID-19 vaccine will give us a protection from not being easily infected and died for it.

 

Therefore, even though you are vaccinated you can still be positive, because viruses are just around us and the function of vaccine is only to protect us, so once you will encounter corona virus after vaccination our body can already resist the virus but it can’t stop the virus from hitting you specially when you acquire it from touching and because of not washing hands then the virus is in your hand and when you touch your eyes, mouth, nose, etc. then of course you have the virus with you even though you have the vaccines.

So your body is being protected but what is in your hand or in any part outside of your body can’t be controlled by the vaccine for the vaccine is inside your body.

Therefore, as long as there are still people in the world who are not yet vaccinated we still need to wear mask or face shield for we the vaccinated can still be a carrier for the corona virus.

Washing hands, washing hands should be a good practice in order for the virus to not to spread if in case you have it with you in your hands.

Once again, vaccines continue as the most effective shield from being hospitalized and for death, even if there is the so known variant of it, still the fully vaccinated people are being protected and the risk for dying has been reduced.

So get vaccinated, then still continue to wear masks specially indoors with much crowd or public spaces to reduce the possible spread of the variant.

I hope that this article has given you some valuable insight about the present pandemic, and with this you will be encouraged to get yourself be vaccinated, so that you yourselves as well will help the people to encourage them that it’s better to be vaccinated than not, because protection and prevention are always better than the cure.

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The most common reason why the feelings of love between partners have slowly fading away, it’s because while the relationship is getting longer couples tend to be relaxed with themselves and forgot that they have a big responsibility to face which is to work out with the relationship that they have promised to work.

Thereby, once they forgot this commitment, they eventually started to take their partners for granted, then wondered why this happened to their relationship and asked, how love fades?

So if we want our relationship to work, both partners should help each other in working for it.

To keep the relationship healthy as it’s been from the very beginning, whenever you are wrong you have to admit it, and whenever you are right you have to learn to be silent and wait for the perfect moment to discuss it, not right there and then at the event of the conflict.

Human beings are not perfect, we make mistakes, and we should always remember this, that we can add a little more consideration with each other when time comes that there is something our partners have missed to performed as we have expected them to be as part of their obligations towards partner to partner.

Being a partner of course we already have a lot of ideas about weaknesses, mood swings, qualities, etc., and this is what most relationships have misunderstood as fading away of love.

Therefore, if we only realize that we also are responsible then, we will learn to give a bigger consideration about how to keep our love as strong as before.

Some partners are just relying on that, they both have already promised to love each other, they thought that it can be done even without the actual performance.

In the very beginning of the relationship, we used to be doing something impressive, we used to be demonstrative with our feelings, we used to be giving some surprises, we used to be showing some excitement, and happiness being together.

So there were a lot of things that we normally showed and we never did it anymore because we lost the loving feelings that we had from the very beginning of the relationship.

If we only continue with what we were doing before, we will not experience the feeling of love that is fading away.

Recall the way you used to do when you always say how much you love and care, and how happy you are to have become your partner, lover, spouse, girlfriend, and husband or wife.

The old exciting feelings are dying, and the relationship started to get boring, there is no more excitement that drives each other’s feelings of love.

Physical closeness should always be present in a relationship, or else meaningful conversations are needed, because it’s only the love that gives sense in even stupid conversations.

The reason why the feelings of love have started to fade, because we don’t share anymore the same feelings as we did in the beginning.

The longer time you are away from each other is the more chances of your feelings to fade if you don’t keep your close communication tightened with love.

Then once love is slowly fading, the chances of looking for someone new will be bigger because you will then start to develop a new love, once you meet someone whom you think can fill up the missing feelings and care that you normally had with your present relationship.

All relationship started with an exciting one, and the excitement are slowly fading because of how we regarded them as it’s been.

Humans have emotions, the feelings can’t be stopped, no matter how we try, and that is a sure sign of being pure human.

To have a heart doesn’t always mean we’re human without having an emotion in it.

In life, we feel incomplete without the feelings of love, it’s the most wonderful feeling to have loved, but when the feeling is gone, we want to search it again in order to experience the wholeness and the completeness of our being.

It is a choice why we feel, so the most important thing is for us to realize why we have such feelings.

There is none of us that intentionally choose to have such feelings, and we never have intended to let our love fade away.

It’s just suddenly coming our way as the result of what we feel of being shown some changes of feelings very much different than it’s been to be in the very beginning.

Even though we choose different thoughts and actions, we can’t still avoid the different emotions.

Understanding that we are only humans, is a big factor in finding out why love fades and why love grows.

We need to take a loving care for each other endlessly, if we want a never fading feelings of love.

We learned to love because of knowing that we are loved, but once we know that love is getting colder, we noticed and feel that way as well even though it hurts, feeling is contagious, what everyone wants is exactly we also wanted.

Being in love with each other doesn’t guarantee for an unfading love, but we can teach each other to love by just showing that we care and truly love.

So having your love to fade can sometimes be intentional, for we can make it grow or fade by choice.

It’s not a question why love fades, the question is, why you allow your love to fade?

If you only make an effort to let it grow, surely it will, and won’t fade.

We ourselves are responsible because everything is under our control and choice, if we want it not to fade it won’t but since we choose it, definitely it will, as we wanted it to be.

It’s only the long distance relationship that have the bigger chances of experiencing such situation, because not being together will sometimes cause the love to fade specially if the love for each other is not with a strong foundation.

So being far away from each other is the most common but not all for it will all depend upon their faithfulness.

Distance is only a test, if how far love can travel, but the two faithful persons who loved each other can always find a way to make their love stronger by looking for ways to make their communication as close as they are not a part from each other.

Communication is very important, so it’s part to the partner’s obligation to find a way to contact each other in any ways like audio or video calling, or even just text messaging  for as long as there is a way of communication between each other for without this, relationship will be in danger of having it’s love gradually fading.

Physical closeness is very vital in any relationship, so if possible couples have to be together always or at least they meet most of their days in life.

Long distance relationship have encountered some issues due to the lack of intimacy which is normally the binding factor of the relationship, because in a romantic relationship, both are expected to be physically close to each other.

Although we are now in the modern era where communication is not anymore difficult due to the aid of internet.

But still it’s not enough to replace the actual face to face togetherness of the couple or lovers.

Long distance relationship requires effective communication in order to understand each other very well.

If close relationship has encountered some misunderstandings how much more those who are in a long distance.

Many misunderstandings and unavoidable arguments have resulted in an online communication, and it will not bring you any joy and this will cause for the relationship to fall apart.

Most of those who are in a situation of being away from each other have looked for ways to fix it, but sad to say that some of them have decided to end it.

Ending a relationship is not easy but if it is approved by two concerned people, so it’s not right that relationship is ended by

the decision of one person alone, so if ending up a relationship should really be needed then it should be agreed between them.

Long distance relationship is the most common situation that encountered breaking up or fading away love for each other.

Discussing the matters about the relationship specially the long distance one, if partners will only give each other a chance to talk about their issues, problems can suppose to be fixed by themselves if they will make an effort for it.

Unless the partner has no more interest about their relationship for there are some other reasons like having found another to replace.

The most common complaint of many couples nowadays is that the strength and the flame of love are not anymore present in the relationship.

The excitement of the first few months have suddenly gone then couples enthusiasm with their relationship have faded and the hope of bringing back the sweet first months of togetherness have eventually given up.

In order to keep a close relationship to not to change, both should know what to do, and what to not to do.

Each partner should know when is the right time to approach, and when is the right time to go away.

We should always remember that we are only a human being, we have emotions and feelings, and of course with some expectations and anticipations.

We all have our individual different characteristics so we should be willing to accept our individual differences so that we will learn to be considerate and patient with all our weaknesses and failures.

Some of us are demonstrative with the feelings but some are hideous with theirs, and it doesn’t mean they don’t care,

as a matter of fact, some of them who are not showy with their feelings, are the ones who truly love the most.

Couples who are in love can suppose to be keeping their love alive forever, if they only knew how to handle their relationship.

But sad to say, both couples have forgotten their responsibilities as being partners.

Some of them are abusing their rights, because they know that they already owned each other they’re thinking that they are already for each other even without doing an effort which is very much wrong.

What we did from the time when still newly engaged or wed, we have to continue with the same effort till forever.

Yes, we are getting older but our inner being is not, it continues to be young no matter how old you are already.

As long as we are still on the right mind, we still appreciate being taken cared and loved.

However, this should be done by both partners, what we want is what we should show and demonstrate.

If we want care, we should care. If we want love, we should love. Whatever ways that we want to do to ourselves that is the same is the expectation of the others.

So we can’t blame anyone if there are break-ups in a relationship, it’s normally because there are some duties and responsibilities that we need to perform in order to keep the flame of love healthy as it is when it was.

Even though people are not perfect for each other, they still are made perfect because love is a perfect feeling specially, if being appreciated will never fade even by the length of time.

I hope you’ve learnt something from this article about, how love fades?

It’s good for us to make it as pattern for our own relationship to not to reach to the point of having the love for each other to unreasonably fade.

Francisco,

Founder of Bookworm or https://franciscorondinalaurito.com

 

There is none of us who can tell that the huge difference of age in a relationship can mean that such is destined to be not harmonious and successful.

Every time we encounter relationships with big age differences, we can sometimes think of something unfavorable reasons for we concluded that one of them specially the younger side has something that have expected other than love.

Thereby, most couples are thinking about the age difference in relationships, if whether it really matters or not.

However, we can’t blame them for thinking that way, because there are some situations that are happening which are exactly the same as those that they have thought, either the woman or the man has some other intentions.

We can’t judge them based on our own experience and the experience of other people.

Everyone of us has reasons and those reasons can be understood only by them who have experienced it, whether the young ones or the older ones.

Therefore, we don’t need to wonder why age doesn’t matter for some people while for others matters a lot.

There are many factors that we need to consider, because it will all depend on how the relationship started and grow or of what foundation are they basing for it.

If both partners have a love for each other, the difference of age will not be considered as an issue for it will depend on their individual intentions.

Most women who are already of the right age for marrying, they normally prefer older man because of hoping that they are going to be the last love.

Some older men are looking for a younger women, and hoping that they’re going to be the first and the last love.

If both of them have similar intentions and values, then age gap will definitely not matter to them for their relationship can surely overcome the challenges that most relationship will encounter during the test of life between two people who are together.

People will normally have negative comments when they see couples who are far apart when it comes to age.

When the gap is more than ten years, they always make it a questionable relationship without finding out the main reasons of it all.

In reality, there are many other things that we should consider once we talk about lasting relationship between two people who are in the situations that one of them is having a big gap of age from ten years and above.

Actually a person’s age is not an issue, what matters most is how a person behaves at his age, because some people who are young are sometimes behaving more than a matured person do, while some who are old are acting like still young about handling a relationship.

Most of the recorded happy marriages can be found with couples who have big difference in age.

Thereby, it doesn’t matter how old is the partner as long as they have a real love between each other.

If you are looking for a lasting relationship, you must learn a lot of things in life.

So you should not focus only for age, but on how you accept each other’s weaknesses, differences, attitude, and you must respect your partner on the way how you would like to be respected.

Mutual respect can be a big factor if you want a harmonious, and successful relationship.

Show to your partner that you are thankful to have him.

Respect and love are some vital things in making the relationship last, because without it, you can’t expect your companionship to last any longer, for without it your both love will slowly fade away as the time goes by.

A huge gap of age will not really matter if both partners are aware about their responsibilities and obligation for each other as they are living together.

Don’t compare your relationship to some others’ relationships, because yours is about yours, while theirs are not yours.

So whether you are the old ones or the young, don’t let your age difference can cause you to change your feelings just because of some peoples comments and advice, be always with your own decision and opinion.

If you truly love, there’s no reason to have a condition for it, because we fall in love by chance and we stay in love by choice, so if you chose to stay that means you know that you really love unconditionally.

Age is just an issue of mind, so if you don’t mind age doesn’t matter because in love age is just a number.

It is proven by a lot of lasting relationship that with a partner who is ten years and over gap, they lived happily ever after, because most of those who are the old ones will usually be the one to guide the relationship in living harmoniously.

Once again age is just a number, and what really matters is the level of the partner’s maturity and judgment over the relationship.

Whether ten years younger or ten years older, the things that we should look into is the way each other acts, thinks, and feels about the difference in age.

Yes, it’s easy to find someone who will say ‘I love you,’ what is difficult is to whom we can find someone who is telling you the truth.

It’s difficult to find someone we can get along well, therefore, if you can find someone close enough with all those criteria, find a way how keep him because he’s the one that can hold you forever.

Ignore the opinion of other people, it’s you who are in a relationship, and it’s you who know exactly what you are doing and the surrounding people, don’t have any idea about how you feel towards each other.

You have now the chance of proving to the people specially those who have negative comments about your life, that they are mistaken about what they thought.

Prove to them that age is merely a number, so no matter how big is the gap, what is important for you is that you are happy with the one you love.

Many relationships have failed because they made the age as the deciding factor in looking for a perfect partner, without even knowing that the most important is the love that is binding the relationship to last long.

If you are happy with your partner, why should you make the age difference as the hindrance for your feelings.

Don’t let the age difference in relationships change your feelings of love, because real love begins only when nothing is expected in return.

I hope that there is something that you’ve learnt while reading this article called, age difference in relationships.

If you have any questions or comments please feel free to write them in the comment box and I will be more than happy to hear it.

FRANCISCO,

Founder of the Bookworm, or https://franciscorondinalaurito.com website

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