Most Healthy Food Ever

What is God’s diet recommendation for healthy living?
Note: Since I am using a lot of bible verses in this blog, I would like to inform you that I am a believer of God and I comply the policy and procedure set by God about using his words from the bible. Therefore, I made sure that all verses I used are really coming from the bible, God is strictly commanding us to not to add whatever is on the verse.
Deuteronomy 12:32
32 See that you do all I command you; do not add to it or take away from it.
Deuteronomy 4:2
2 Do not add to what I command you and do not subtract from it, but keep the commands of the Lord your God that I give you.
 Let us begin.
All of us who are believing in God, have known so well that we are created in a form of soil, and the very first product of creation is our very well-known ancestor Adam.
Genesis 2:7 Then the Lord God formed a man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.
And this account has been supported by some scientist that we really came from the dust of the ground, others termed it clay or earth.
All life on Earth may have come from clay according to new scientific research – just as the Bible and even Greek mythology have been suggesting for thousands of years.
The latest theory is that clay – which is at its most basic, a combination of minerals in the ground – acts as a breeding laboratory for tiny molecules and chemicals which it ‘absorbs like a sponge’.
The process takes billions of years, during which the chemicals react to each other to form proteins, DNA and, eventually, living cells, scientists told the journal Scientific Reports.
Biological Engineers from Cornell University’s department for Nanoscale Science in New York state believe clay ‘might have been the birthplace of life on Earth’.
It is a theory dating back thousands of years in many cultures, though perhaps not using the same scientific explanation.
In religious texts from ancient Egypt to Chinese legends, God moulds clay into the shape of man and then breathes life into him through his nostrils.
I am not scientist but I fully believed that my full ingredients as human being created by God is from the dust of the ground, why I believe so?
Because when I die I will become dust and will join back to the ground.
What is God’s diet recommendation for healthy living?
Genesis 1:29
29 Then God said, “I give you every seed-bearing plant on the face of the whole earth and every tree that has fruit with seed in it. They will be yours for food.
God’s first recommended foods are herbs, plants or vegetables, and fruits, that’s why our teeth are designed not for meats but for vegetables in other words vegetarian.
You can see the obvious comparison between herbivorous animals and carnivorous. The teeth of a cow formation is different from the teeth of a lion.
We human beings are designed to be herbivorous, hereby, we have an evenly aligned teeth same with cows., unlike lions and other carnivorous animals, they have fangs to crush flesh or meats.
Herbivorous Animal’s Teeth (Cow)
Herbivorous teeth (Human)
Carnivorous Teeth (Lion)
But God is so powerful that he knows if he will make everybody vegetarian then one day there will be no enough food for all,
that’s why God was allowing the next generation to eat meat as he implied when he gave the next instruction to Adam about what food to eat.
Genesis 9:3
Everything that lives and moves about will be food for you. Just as I gave you the green plants, I now give you everything.
In this verse God is telling Adam that he may eat everything that lives and moves, but still he was reminded for his first recommendation which is green plants.
Actually, to choose to be vegetarian will have a lot of benefits, you will even live longer than meat eaters, but it is not a sin to eat meat, that’s the good thing.
Servants of God like Isaac the son of Abraham, were not vegetarians.
But if you look for tasty food, you can make on vegetable as well, but nothing can compare
with meat especially if you know the right way of cooking to make it tasty,
like Rebekah the wife of Isaac, who prepared him tasty goat meat menu.
Genesis 27:9
9 Go out to the flock and bring me two choice young goats, so I can prepare some tasty food for your father, just the way he likes it.
The one talking here is Rebekah the wife of Isaac who instructed Jacob to bring two young goats.
Again God’s recommended foods are herbs or vegetables and fruits.
If you follow this diet you will surely be away from any risk of cancer, and many other diseases.
Most of the diseases like cancer, tuberculosis, trichinosis, and other dangerous ailments are acquired from eating meats. Medical study suggests:
Red and processed meats do increase health risks.
In spite of what the Annals of Internal Medicine study suggests, Dr. Hu says that an accumulated body of evidence shows a clear link between high intake of red and processed
meats and a higher risk for heart disease, cancer, diabetes, and premature death.
God loves his people, and he knows that letting them eat meats alone are not good for health, that’s why,
he taught them some other food to eat as part of their daily diet, because once they have included them on their daily eating they will not be risking of dangerous diseases.
While reading the bible if you encounter any fruits or vegetables mentioned that means they are the best to eat for healthy diet,
because they are there for a reason, and the reason is beneficial to everybody that believes.
God moved them to a promise land where in there he introduced the other food that they should eat as well, aside from eating meats, and with this, they will not be at risk for diseases.
What are those foods?
Deuteronomy 8:6-8,10
6 Observe the commands of the Lord your God, walking in obedience to him and revering him.
7 For the Lord your God is bringing you into a good land—a land with brooks, streams, and
deep springs gushing out into the valleys and hills;
8 a land with wheat and barley, vines and fig trees, pomegranates, olive oil and honey;
10 When you have eaten and are satisfied, praise the Lord your God for the good land he has given you.
So let us examine one by one, the benefits of these foods, where they can find in the good land that God is taking them.
WHEAT-Enriched wheat flour may be a good source of iron, thiamine, niacin, calcium, and
vitamin B6, in addition to the above nutrients.
SUMMARY Whole wheat may be a decent source of several vitamins and minerals,
including selenium, manganese, phosphorus, copper, and folate.
BARLEY– is a very healthy grain. It’s rich in vitamins, minerals and other beneficial plant
compounds. It’s also high in fiber, which is
responsible for most of its health benefits,
ranging from a better digestion to reduced
hunger and weight loss.
 VINES– In addition, the fruit of the vine appears to boost levels of HDL, the “good”
cholesterol, and helps prevent LDL, or bad cholesterol, from causing damage to the lining of arteries.
 FIGS- are high in natural sugars, minerals and soluble fibre. Figs are rich in minerals
including potassium, calcium, magnesium,
iron and copper and are a good source of
antioxidant vitamins A and K that
contribute to health and wellness.
POMEGRANATES– Pomegranate juice contains higher levels of antioxidants than most other
fruit juices. It also has three times more
antioxidants than red wine and green tea.
The antioxidants in pomegranate juice can
help remove free radicals, protect cells
from damage, and reduce inflammation.
 OLIVE OIL– Olive Oil Is Rich in Healthy Monounsaturated Fats. …
Olive Oil Contains Large Amounts of Antioxidants. …
Olive Oil Has Strong Anti-Inflammatory Properties. …
Olive Oil May Help Prevent Strokes. …
Olive Oil Is Protective Against Heart Disease. …
Olive Oil Is Not Associated With Weight Gain and Obesity.
 HONEY– Honey Contains Some Nutrients. …
High-Quality Honey Is Rich in Antioxidants. …
Honey Is “Less Bad” Than Sugar for Diabetics. …
The Antioxidants in It Can Help Lower Blood Pressure. …
Honey Also Helps Improve Cholesterol. …
Honey Can Lower Triglycerides. …
The Antioxidants in It Are Linked to Other Beneficial Effects on Heart Health.
Exodus 12:8 They shall eat the flesh that night, roasted on the fire; with unleavened bread and bitter herbs they shall eat it.
So all bitter herbs or vegetables are good for health.
6 Benefits of Bitter Melon (Bitter Gourd) and Its Extract

  • Packs Several Important Nutrients. Bitter melon is a great source of several key nutrients. …
  • Can Help Reduce Blood Sugar. …
  • May Have Cancer-Fighting Properties. …
  • Could Decrease Cholesterol Levels. …
  • May Aid Weight Loss. …
  • Versatile and Delicious.
Samuel 6:19
19 Then he gave a loaf of bread, a cake of dates and a cake of raisins to each person in the whole crowd of Israelites, both men and women. And all the people went to their homes.
Dates benefits of to health: This sweet fruit also carries with it powerful antioxidants,
including carotenoids, polyphenols and anthocyanins.
Eating a diet rich in antioxidants has been associated with a reduced risk for long-
term health conditions like heart disease cancer and diabetes.
A study published in the Journal of Agricultural and Food Chemistry examined
the effects of date consumption on blood sugar and blood fat (aka triglycerides) in healthy people, and found that the fruit didn’t
worsen either metric. The researchers concluded that dates can help prevent heart disease, specifically the hardening of the arteries. A 2014 study published in the Journal of Nutrition
Science concluded that dates may assist with bowel health and decrease the risk of colorectal cancer.
Raisins: Despite their small size, raisins are packed with energy and rich in fiber, vitamins,
and minerals. Raisins are naturally sweet
and high in sugar and calories, but they’re
beneficial to our health when eaten in
moderation. In fact, raisins can aid
digestion, boost iron levels, and keep your
bones strong.
These foods have made the people of God healthy and strong, but it still didn’t make them live as long as the lives of their ancestors.
The people of God of those days were have a constant communication with God, and spirit is with them, . Therefore, they had an extraordinary life span of age.
Adam lived a total of 930 years and then he died.
Seth lived a total of 912 years and then he died.
Enosh lived a total of 905 years and then he died.
Kenan lived a total of 910 years and then he died.
Mahalalel lived a total of 895 years and then he died.
Jared lived a total of 962 years and then he died.
Enoch lived a total of 365 years and then he died.
Methuselah lived a total of 969 years and then he died.
Lamech lived a total of 777 years and then he died.
Noah lived a total of 950 years and then he died.
Because of the wickedness of the world God ended up the life of the wicked people through
flood during the time of Noah.
There was only 8 people left in the world
including Noah himself, his wife, his three
sons, and three in laws.
And it was then when the life span of people was dramatically decreased, as God said.
Genesis 6:3 Then the Lord said, “My Spirit will not contend with[a] humans forever, for they are mortal[b]; their days will be a hundred and twenty years.”
It was also then when God clearly giving an instruction to them to eat meats with the condition of not eating with blood in it.
God’s Covenant With Noah
Genesis 9:1-4 Then God blessed Noah and his sons, saying to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number and fill the earth.
2 The fear and dread of you will fall on all the beasts of the earth, and on all the birds in the sky, on every creature that moves along the ground, and on all the fish in the sea; they are given into your hands.
3 Everything that lives and moves about will be food for you. Just as I gave you the green plants, I now give you everything.
4 “But you must not eat meat that has its lifeblood still in it.
So for our daily diet program, you can be vegetarian which is good, or you can mix the diet vegetables and meats,
for as long as all those fruits and vegetables mentioned in the bible should be part of your daily diet.
But everything should always be in moderation, like honey, even if it’s good for health but if you eat a lot of it, will have a bad side effect for health.
Side effects of eating too much honey
1. Can Cause Stomach Cramping, Constipation, Bloating Etc.
2. Increases Blood Sugar Level In Our Body
3. Malfunctioning Of Gastrointestinal Tract
4. Can Lead To Weight Gain
5. Should Be Avoided By People With Low Blood Pressure
6. Not Suitable For People With Allergies
7. Increases Risk of Bleeding
8. Erode Enamel Of Teeth And Cause Cavities
9. Might Cause Insulin Insensitivity
We had just known it lately that honey is not good if too much, but the bible which was
written about 5000 years ago because Jewish calendar is now 5780 years comparing to our 2020 years, is already giving us information about it.
Proverbs 25:27 It is not good to eat much honey, nor is it glorious to seek one’s own glory.
So eating too much is not being recommended by God, as a matter of fact, he put more
emphasis on fasting.
Now we have discovered through the bible that the healthiest diet ever is the one which can be found in the bible.
There are many more facts about bible when it comes to dieting, but I can’t put all of them just in one blog or else it will be too long.
Anyway, as a bonus for visiting my site, I will add jut one more healthy diet, which God had taught to Moses to teach to the people, and make sure you will have it as well in your daily food.
This was written in the bible for the intention to remind the people that it should be part of the diet for healthy living.
Numbers 11:5 We remember the fish we ate in Egypt that cost nothing, the cucumbers, the melons, the leeks, the onions, and the garlic.
Let us examine as well one by one the benefits of these foods to our health.
Fish is a low-fat high quality protein. Fish is filled with omega-3 fatty acids and vitamins
such as D and B2 (riboflavin). Fish is rich in
calcium and phosphorus and a great
source of minerals, such as iron, zinc,
iodine, magnesium, and potassium.
CUCUMBER They are low in calories but contain many important vitamins and minerals, as
well as a high water content. Eating
cucumbers may lead to many potential
health benefits, including weight loss,
balanced hydration, digestive regularity
and lower blood sugar levels.
MELON They are dense in antioxidants, vitamins and nutrients, and are a storehouse of
health benefits. From boosting healthy
eyesight, regulating blood pressure,
increasing blood flow to immunity, melons
make for an extremely healthy addition to
your diet. They are perhaps one of the
oldest fruits known to mankind.
LEEKS Why leeks are good to eat?
Leeks are a good source of vitamins A, C
and K (important for helping your blood to
clot). They also contain minerals such as
iron (which is important for red blood cells)
and manganese (involved in the regulation
of brain and nerve function). Leeks are
also a good source of dietary fibre.
Onions contain antioxidants and compounds that fight inflammation, decrease triglycerides
and reduce cholesterol levels — all of
which may lower heart disease risk. Their
potent anti-inflammatory properties may
also help reduce high blood pressure and
protect against blood clots.
GARLIC Consuming garlic on a daily basis (in food or raw) helps to lower cholesterol levels
because of the anti-oxidant properties of
Allicin. It is also immensely beneficial to
regulate blood pressure and blood sugar
Song of Songs 2:3
Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste.
Apples: Apples are a good source of antioxidants. One meta-analysis from 2016 concluded

that consuming apples may help lower the
risk of lung cancer, breast cancer, and
colorectal cancer, among other types.
Fiber may also help reduce the risk of
colon cancer, according to a meta-analysis
published in 2018.
Numbers 11:5
We remember the fish we ate in Egypt that cost nothing, the cucumbers, the melons, the leeks, the onions, and the garlic.
Have you noticed why there is no bread, potato, and rice in this menu? Because God who is powerful knows that sugar is not good for our health.
Potato, rice, and bread are all sugar in a form of glucose.
And that particular menu is representing a lesser meal portion, because eating fish,
cucumbers, melons, leeks, with onions and garlic will boost your leptin and it will make you
feel full very fast and not getting hungry very soon, and as a result, you will lose weight and
at the same time very healthy.
that’s the healthiest diet ever according to the bible.
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What Are The Signs Of True Love?

Whether short or long togetherness every partner’s questions of each other is, how they can find out if their partner is true with their feelings, or they are just playing around until they can find the one that they really like.

You will just be shocked upon knowing that they want to break up with you without any valid reasons, and this is a very painful thing to imagine specially if you have started already to believe and to fall in love with the person.

How do you know if it’s true love?

The most awesome thing about true love is that there is no one who can clearly define about it, and that is mostly what we know and consider as real thing.

The very popular words about love that we can hear from partners are those: Love at first sight, puppy love, mutual understanding, secret lovers, teenage crush, first love never dies, etc.

All those beautiful words to hear can be true or not, it will only depend upon the persons who feel it, so all those words will just remain words until someone will come along and give it its real meaning.

Real love or true love is not so easy to be defined and put in a container bolted with a promise, but the real love are being demonstrated by the truly loving person who deserves to be loved.

There are some additional facts pertaining love, that can make you feel greater than you can ever imagine.

Is love at first sight true?

Men or women are being easily attracted with the beauty, first from face and then the body, the rest of other indications are just to follow.

The derivation of the love at first sight is felt most by those people with personal experience about it.

Based from the normal feelings it is impossible for the person to feel a true love in a first sight because, you first need to know the person well before you can decide whether you like him or her,

what makes you fall in love is the feeling of being loved, is the feeling of being treated with a special care, and those reasons are commonly the reason why we feel like being in love even just for a short period of knowing each other, but not that feeling when you don’t know him and you even don’t have idea how she or he feels for you.

Sometimes we are being captivated by the way he or she smiles, looks, smells, stand, talks, sings, dances, behaves, and many more ways that charms your feelings.

The most captivating behavior of a person is his attitude because this in a person a very small thing but it can make a big difference.

Although, attraction is the most common reason for getting your attention, but as soon as you know the person you will start to be interested in knowing how he or she behaves with you in a relationship.

It’s so easy to pretend, a person will do all that he can just to win your feelings, so he or she is temporarily cutting all the things that can make you to be turned off.

So the focus should be not in love at first sight only but it should be also in the love at every sight.

First love never dies, how true is this?

If we put into consideration about how our human brains work in us, first love never dies as they called it to be, can be assumed that it is true based on the feelings of the person who experienced such love,

because first lover’s feelings and emotions are really strong since it is the very first time that such feelings is being introduced to heart and mind of a lover.

Therefore, it can be good or bad, but the person who has it will experience some unique feelings which is incomparable and unforgettable, and sometimes unerasable.

That’s it comes out as the conclusion for most people that first love never dies, because even if the time has been long gone, the memory of the feelings will still be fresh in the memory, and will keep in reminding the person whenever he or she is meditating, but this will mostly happen only when the person who became the first love did not become the long time partner.

So such feelings will only instill in the mind specially for those who grow old without a partner, but once you have a partner for life the feeling will not bother you anymore.

The best way to move on with the situation is to find somebody else to love, and in this way, you can forget if not completely but gradually, as times goes by, the wound in your heart will slowly heal.

The very reason why we say first love never dies, is because that is the very first one and the very first time, so it’s so easy to remember and will keep in reminding you of it.

There is a mighty power that functions within the feelings, that’s why you experience an inexpressible feeling because first love originates from God who made us learnt to feel the so called first love, so if we will figure it out, we feel the first love after we have first loved our creator and God, as it is said in the book of:

Revelation 2:3-4 and hast borne, and hast patience, and for my name’s sake hast labored, and hast not fainted.

4 Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love.

Your heart and mind can feel the pain of it every time you think of them, longing for the failure of your dreams, it seemed that so hard to accept why you are not for each other.

Your heart will not accept the reasons for the failure even though you are being explained by reality, and that’s how it is when experiencing first love, and therefore, a song is being composed and titled first love never dies.

Whether first love, second love, third love, forth love, fifth love, sixth love or maybe 7th love etc.,

they will all come back with the question, if they are for each other, or how do we know if who is meant for you?

The only sure answer of it is only if there is an intervention of God between partners who believed that they are meant for each other.

The book of Proverbs 19:14 in the bible have said in this way: House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the Lord.

Good news Translation of Proverbs 19:14 A man can inherit a house and money from his parents, but only the Lord can give him a sensible wife.

So only God can give him a sensible wife, there is no other one who can give him such wife. In other words, if you are a man what is meant by God for you is a sensible wife.

If you are a woman, what is meant by God for you is a sensible husband also, and it’s vice versa.

Once again, a prudent or a sensible wife is from the Lord, then a prudent or a sensible husband is also from the Lord.

Test the person’s sensibleness or prudence and it’s up to you to decide, because a person with prudence should have the wisdom that comes from God, but we are talking here about the sensibleness about heavenly not of this earth, for the bible is always speaking about spiritual things for there is a so called prudence which is of this earth as it is said in the book of 1 Corinthians 1:19 For it is written, I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and will bring to nothing the understanding of the prudent.

So according to this verse there is a prudence which is not good in the sight of the Lord. The understanding of the prudent can be nothing according to God.

The only way to figure it out which prudence does the person has, is by testing them their prudence if it is from God or only from this earth, then you will certainly know if that boy friend or Girl friend is by God or else you have to find somebody else.

All you have to do is to wait for the right time and the right places, because mostly love comes from the unexpected places, or it can also come from the most unexpected time of your life.

I hope you learn something from this article, and if you have any questions or comments or suggestions please feel free to write them below and I will be more than happy to hear it.

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How To Be A Good Partner In A Relationship?

What will you benefit from reading this article?

People’s most common question when it comes to dealing with partner is, how to be a good partner in a relationship?

Yet instead of asking such question, they should supposed to be asking themselves beforehand about, how to be a good partner?

The main objective should be on what we are going to get in a relationship, which is all concerning the partner’s feelings, thoughts and what has impacted on their actions.

How about reversing that focus to the other points of view? What if we start prioritizing our own partner’s needs and wants instead of our own?

What if we change the focus into giving instead of getting? Can this mindset be able to make a big impact to the relationship.

The question should not be, Are we good partners? Instead, the questions should be in this way, which is, how to be a good partner in a relationship.

There is no other best key to any serious relationship other than understanding and how do you take part in it.

If you want to learn on how to be a good partner in a relationship, you are required to look into the inner self of your partner.

Your lack of knowledge in a relationship, your fears, your anxiety, the boundary of your capacity to connect and to stay on being connected to the pattern of your partner’s way of understanding, and the kind of person, if whether he or she is lighting up your relationship or not and you yourselves could also help it lighting up as well.

To have the desire to increase not only to the sort of relationship which you are having but with the happiness and harmony which you and your partner are experiencing while being together.

Therefore, it’s the perfect time for you to move out from a self-centered mindset and to shift into providing your partner’s needs.

There is no any situation better than a more intimate which can take out more of our fears and insecurities, than a romantic relationship.

Once you show yourself on how to be a good partner through applying empathy, than to aggravate your partner against to it, you are moving up to the level of embracing the opportunity for a great connection.

If providing your partner’s needs is the first priority among the rest, then to enhance trust and the sense of security, is the sure way of bringing you and your partner to get closer to each other.

When you ask yourself, how to be a good partner in a relationship? You also need first of all to question yourself, Am I ready to face the challenges that I will be facing in a relationship, because it needs a lot of gives and takes to survive with it.

Every relationship has its style and strategy to make it work well, and last for long even for a lifetime.

So it’s so important, that you are very willing to do what must be done, so that you can really show up to your partner that you are doing your best for the sake of the kind of relationship which you have wanted to live harmoniously with each other.

The best partners are communicating very well with each other.

To communicate well is to be good in paying attention to every word you choose and the kind of tone of your voice which you use while talking to your partner, because what mostly irritates us are not the words we hear but the tone of voice that we heard and the countenance of the partner which we have seen.

So communication is not just to be always in touched with each other but it also includes all sorts of ways in dealing with partner to make sure that there is nothing hidden from partner specially things about the present situations.

Part of the ways to communicate well with partner, is for being demonstrative with the feelings, and for being honest no matter how small or little importance there is in a thing.

Some partners are not showy with their feelings so they luck these characteristics, and what the good partner should do is to be the one to initiate on whatever he found missing as proper communication with partners.

Make sure that when you ask question to your partner it should be an open-ended so that your partner can have a chance to share on what they have really felt inside, because not everyone can easily open up a conversation.

Don’t expect too much from your partner, every person is different in his own ways, sometimes they like to share their thoughts but sometimes not.

You have to respect the certain limitation in our every emotion, so you have to be respectful of each other’s emotional boundaries, and in return your partner will be respectful to you too.

How do you show up in your relationship to be the best partner?

Showing up in a relationship is not easy specially if you’re always getting surprised with demands and specific attention.

To make your partner become excited with you, it is so important that you have to set aside some valuable moments which is only intended and exclusively for your partner so that the feelings will be more exciting.

Find a special day in every week, and pick it as the wonderful day for your dates together. Initiate in choosing which restaurant venue you are going to have your special dinner, and make some surprises by contacting the restaurant manager ahead to prepare for you some flowers or any special decoration that will fit for the event.

How do you know if you are a good partner?

If you consider yourself a good partner, then you should have the characteristics which is not holding any bad memories from the past, so you should not use the memories from the past to deal with the present.

Anything bad about the past should not be mentioned in the present, reminding and talking about it is strictly prohibited.

Make sure that you only mention things that is valuable and memorable, or anything that can be helpful in making your relationship more harmonious.

Every person has his unique traits, every person has his own strengths and weaknesses, so never compare your partner with anyone in the world, however, be appreciative with who your partner is and always say compliments even of little good things that they have done.

If you consider yourself as a good partner you should learn and understand the idea of giving and taking. In a relationship it is required by both partners the whole efforts of helping each other in nurturing the relationship.

To be a good partner is to be considerate and understanding, you should know how to give space and time, you should know how to read the moods of a person, and you should always be in good timing of when to be serious or when to insert jokes in every conversation.

What the good partner should do to be considered as the one?

A good partner knows what to say and do to avoid any problems in a relationship, being a good partner is not always easy, even if you say that you have the best partner.

A good partner knows the right timing when to listen and when to talk, when Is the right timing to offer advice, when should be the right timing to offer empathy, when is the best time to spend with them the best attention, and most of all the right moment to give them some space.

You should be someone who can be trusted and admired, and to be an incomparable partner.

You need to be a partner who can adapt to whatever situation you may encounter, and to anticipate that challenges will never finished in a relationship, and understanding and consideration between partners should always be present.

Honesty is always the best policy in a relationship, when honesty is present, a lot of possible troubles can be avoided.

A relationship that is tied with faith, hope, love, and honesty, and then plus the fear of the Lord; the assurance of living with harmony can be guaranteed.

How to look for ways of becoming a better partner?

The other ways to become a good partner is to know her or his love languages. It’s so vital in a relationship that you should learn how your partner reacts to your way of dealing with your relationship and how she or he feels being loved.

Therefore, if both of you have different love languages, it is much better to teach each other pertaining what you need so that you can be in one mind.

You need to always remember that in a relationship partners won’t provide you with your kind of happiness that you need.

However, you can learn what your partner wants so you have an idea on how to make him or her happy.

Once you learn the technique of how to create happiness in a relationship, it will be easier for you to handle any obstacles that you will be encountering while you are in a journey of life.

There are many skills to learn if you wish to be the best partner, but mostly you will be the one to initiate everything in the beginning but you have to teach your partner about it in order for both of you to work together in your strive for a lifelong relationship.

Once you become a better partner in a relationship, your communication skills about love languages will greatly improve.

Your sense of thoughtfulness and consideration will increase, and then you will learn how to prioritize things and you will learn to value others as above yourself.

You will learn how to easily forgive and forget, and then as a result of it, happiness, joy, love will be flooding in your relationship.

A good partner’s first priority is their own relationship to be the best among all.

Some partners have the misconception of putting their needs above their own, but the problem is that, most of them will only give way when there is nothing left for them.

Such sort of ways doesn’t contribute anything to give harmony in a relationship, thus, it’s causing resentment hostility, and hatred.

Good health should also be taken a serious attention because if someone has sickness with him, he can’t be a better person because it will affect his moods and will sometimes make the sudden changes of attitude.

To be aware of your needs is helpful in obtaining health and well-being, therefore, it will be giving you the energy to be a good partner.

It is so important that the person knows their goals and dreams, partner who is good will consider himself lower than his partner, and he is considerate, supportive, understanding and most of all loving and caring.

What is meant by 50/50 in a relationship?

50/50 doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to contribute exactly the same for each other. Although when it comes to financial matters, it will not also mean that a man or woman should be responsible about it.

There are situations that a male partner is not quite lucky yet to have found the financially stability to provide for his own family, so if the female partner has the capacity to support for the family, there is nothing wrong about it.

What normally is the complaint from most partners who are not very well-trained about relationship, they are demanding more contribution from male partner and she is complaining that she has done more work than him.

If you are loving each other you would have a respect as well for yourselves, and the more support you have contributed is the more joy and pride you are of yourselves for exceeding to how much normally you can share.

There is nothing greater than a partner who is a good listener.

When you are listening with respect, you will hear all the details of what the partner is saying, so you will pay attention to every detail that she or he had spoken.

Part of being a good listener is also to be not sensitive on negative things being heard, every situation should be given consideration.

Human being’s understanding has a limitation and there are really times that our mind can’t handle so well for something, so a good partner should also look into it, by not being judgmental.

We have to see to it, that we being humans are liable to err, if sometimes we fail it doesn’t mean we will always fail or else it will be a different story.

If there are unclear things in the mind, or maybe not very well caught up from hearing, it is your duty being a good partner to ask for clarification because miscommunication has caused a lot of trouble in a relationship.

That’s why we can always say that a good partner is a good communicator, he always ensures that before talking, the mouth should first be connected to the brain.

Speak in a nice tone of voice because the way you speak will matter in the meaning of every word that will come out from your mouth, and sometimes we are saying things which is being misunderstood by the listener. Therefor to speak slowly will have a lot of benefits, you can be heard clearly and the people who hear you can tell how nice you are through the lovely tone of voice that you have spoken.


How can a good partner sustain a quality relationship?

It is needed to be understood that to sustain a quality relationship, a strong focus on the partner should be done as often as possible.

Release the required strategies in order to shift into a mindset about a certain relationship.

To create a true and lifelong change in your relationship, you need to stop focusing on how your partner does the thing or in what way he’s not able to do the thing, then try to start asking yourself, do I give something? Am I a good partner? Asking yourself a question if whether you are better partner or nor to someone, you are moving towards a world-centric degree and placing your partner’s needs above all.

It doesn’t mean that you have to negate your own needs, but you are there to let your partner know that you’re always around for them.

In such way you are building a trust between each other, and your partner can feel safer and more secured.

As a result of it, your bond of intimacy and connection are being strengthened. Therefore, it is helping you to ultimately surpass for the objective which is to sustain a better relationship.

Being comfortable with your partner could be the start of the very first step to real intimacy in a harmonious relationship.

When you have the feelings to express freely your positive emotions like happiness and pleasure in a relationship, you will have the bigger factor in being able to build a successful one.

During the time when your partner is having a hard life, give him an assurance of your unconditional support.

Be considerate, supportive, understanding, and emphatic towards your partner. You have to listen to your partner’s perspective without being judgmental, because you are building trust in the relationship.

It takes a big effort and determination to learn to be a good partner in a relationship. When you are in a relationship which is emotionally healthy, you will be able to share your feelings, wants, needs, and thoughts, without the fear of being judged and criticized.


There are countless traits, characteristics, etc. on how to be a good partner in a relationship, but even if a person will learn them all, he can’t consistently apply it in his whole life if without the intervention of God, because there is a devil who is around us looking for somebody to temp, victimize, and devour.

1 Peter 5:8 Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.

Here is why it is so important to live a life with faith in God, and to pray earnestly everyday so that through your faith you can have the power to resist the devil.

James 4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

So to be a good partner in a relationship, can only be done fully with the help of God, for we human beings by ourselves alone are weak.

Let us make sure that we being branches of the tree which is God, are still connected in it, for without God in our life we can do nothing.

John 15:5 I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears many fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.

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How Do You Know If You Are Dying?

Is there such an untimely death?

How do you know if you are dying? Is there something written in the bible that people died accidentally and not in the will of God?

It’s not what is written in the bible, as it is said in:

Matthew 10:29 Are not two sparrows sold for a copper coin? And not one of them falls to the ground apart from your Father’s will.

During the times of Christ, the sparrows could just be sold for a farthing.

A copper coin in our present time is equivalent to a cent, and that’s how cheap is the sparrow bird.

Sparrows are just as cheap as nothing for us but according to God in the verse above, none of them will fall down to the ground apart from our Father’s will.

In other words, even one sparrow will not die unless it is permitted by God.

If somebody dies specially human, it is already by the will or with the permission of God, because humans are more valuable by God than sparrows.

Matthew 10:30-31 30 But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. 

31 Do not fear therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows.

So God is clearly saying that humans are more valuable than many sparrows, so whenever there is something that happened in a human specially death, it is already in the will of God no matter what sort of death it is.

If any human died, it means it is already his time since it is with the permission of God, for we are more precious than birds.

So by this fact, we are being told that there is no such thing us untimely death, because when we die it is permitted by God.

If accidentally you are hit by a strayed bullets, that is still happening with God’s permission because if it’s not yet your time, you will not die, even if you are on board in a crushing airplane if God doesn’t like you to die yet, you will still survive, and people mostly called it miracle but it’s God’s works.

Our time to die is already appointed by God, and when that will be? Only

God knows just like what is said in this verse below:

Hebrews 9:27 And as it is appointed for men to die once, but after this the judgment,

Therefore, if anyone dies, it is already by God’s permission, and no one can refuse it.

There are many instances that people purposely killing their selves and because it’s not yet their times, they didn’t die even they committed suicide, because if it’s not your time yet, God will always look for ways to make you survive no matter how you attempted to kill yourself.

But if even you don’t like to die yet if God wants you to rest already, you can’t do anything about it, since it is already your appointed time set by him.

Some people have misunderstood some verses of the bible because it sounds contradicting to each other just like the verses which you can read below.

Matthew 7:18-20 A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit.

19 Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.

20 Thus you will recognize them by their fruits.

In the verses above, it’s mentioned over there every tree that doesn’t bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire, meaning the wicked or the bad are killed and not the good,

but what about those branches who bear good fruit, they should supposed to be not dying, but why they died?

This is a very interesting question which made a lot people confused about the bible and God’s way, but let’s ask God about his reason’s of why good people died, that supposed to be it’s only the wicked or those who didn’t bear good fruit should, the answer is the verse which you will be reading below.


Isaiah 57:1 The righteous perishes, And no man takes it to heart; Merciful men are taken away, While no one considers That the righteous is taken away from evil.

If the person is righteous and really righteous in the eyes of God, sometimes those people are just being taken by God, because of the evil to come for they might become bad for those coming days,

therefore, God just let them take a rest and sleep until the judgment day, because they are really righteous, so letting them die is God’s way of saving them from the evil things to come ahead.

God knows about what will happen in the future and since God has seen something that might cause them to fail for the God’s required works for salvation, so he just let them die for their own good.

Sometimes it’s so hard to accept when our love ones are taken away by God that supposed to be he is a very good husband, wife, or person.

But God who is aware of everything has a reason behind of it all, the pain of departure is unacceptable due to the sweet memories they left with us, but if we sum it up, it’s much better when they left us with good memories than being not in good terms with them.

So it’s still good to feel that our loved ones left us with the sweet loving memories rather than in the opposite feelings.

Once again this situation is specially intended for all righteous people who are living in accordance to the will of God, for the righteous by God is different from the righteous by men.

There are people who are good with their fellow people but not with God. They have some hidden acts which are not known by men but it’s seen by God.

Sometimes we thought that they are God-fearing because of what we only see with our eyes but in reality there is a hidden things they did which is against the will of God.

But if the person is really righteous in reality, and he’s gone from this world, God let them rest, while other people called it untimely death, which is not possible with God’s people.

If you are of God, there is no such thing as untimely death, because God has always had a perfect timing with all his plans and ways, if the people of God die, that means it is their appointed time, no matter how young or old they are when it happened.

So there is never been an untimely death for the people of God.

John the Baptist is a righteous man but he died and decapitated at the age of around 30 years old.

Why John the Baptist died at that young age? That is because his appointed time has already come, and God’s reasons for that is for John’s own good,

because letting him die then is an assurance that he can be with God in paradise after judgment, because he died in service to God.

All things that happened are permitted by God but it’s not all happening by his will.

When you decide to shoot your enemy, it’s your free will who will do it, but to die for it, it’s still God who decides if whether he will die from that shooting or not, but if he dies then God has allowed it to happened because it’s already his time.

If God doesn’t like him to rest yet, you can’t kill him no matter what you do.

We have the wisdom and knowledge to utilize it for our own good, but if we don’t apply them in our life then those will be just like nothing.

So even though we have an appointed time, if we are so abusive with our health, still there is a tendency that you will take a rest earlier than expected, and they also called it untimely death.

We have the so called common sense, and we being with a normal mind, we know what is good for us and what is bad.

We need to always remember that once we know the good thing to do and we don’t do it, we have committed a sin as it is said in:

James 4:17 Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin.

It’s mostly what is going inside our mouth that matters with our age and health, so being with common sense, we know what good can something that you put in your mouth do to your health.

If you are wise enough, you know exactly what to do to keep your health, and if you are healthy then you have the chances that you will not die untimely, as a matter of fact, there is a verse in the bible that is mentioning about prolonging life, as God has the power to do it if he likes.

Proverbs 10:27 The fear of the Lord prolongs days, But the years of the wicked will be shortened.

The people of God died, in different kinds of death, and some of them are even killed brutally, but God as we have already learnt in this article that he just allowed it with the reason that it is for their own good.

Whatever kinds of death that Christians are experiencing, for the real believer of God like those first Christians in the bible.

They didn’t mind of whatever ways they died for as long as, they died in Christ sake.

It is not important to them the life on earth because they are after the eternal life that is promised by God for those who can endure up to the end.


Matthew 24:13 But he who endures to the end shall be saved.

There is none of us that will stay alive in this ending earth, we all will die in different times and ways.

Those who died, their turn has come already, and nobody knows about us, that is the reason why we have to prepare ourselves,

because as long as we will have the same destinations then we will still meet each other again after the resurrection but if we had a different direction then there is no chance for us to meet again for heaven and hell are far away from each other

We don’t know if what is going to happen between now and then, but it’s all known by God. Therefore, we have to pray before we sleep in the night because the next morning is still too far to wait, and we are not sure if we can still wake up then.

The tomorrow is called the nearest future because we don’t have any ideas if what will the next morning bring.

So before sleeping in the night we have to pray to God and ask him that we can still wake up tomorrow, and then upon waking up in the morning we have to thank him for another day in our lives.

We can’t boast to anyone about tomorrow, next day and the future, for everything is just lying in the hands of God.

James 4:14-15 whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.

15 Instead you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we shall live and do this or that.”

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How Do People Fall In Love?

There is a very common question that most people are asking when it comes to the question like, how do people fall in love? And it is the very popular one which is:

What is love?

Love is known to be the sets of behaviors and emotions which is categorized by commitment, passion, and intimacy.

It mostly involves trust, affection, protectiveness, closeness, care, attraction, etc. Love differs in intensity and it can definitely change overtime.

Love is defined by others on how do people fall in love, as the encompassing range of, mental states, which is strong and emotional, from the grandeur virtue or excellent habit, in the core of interpersonal affection towards the easiest way of pleasure.

In the most common meanings of love, it’s usually referring to a feeling of emotional attachment and strong attraction.

Love in some ways is defined as an intense deep feeling of affection accompanied with the great interest and pleasure for something.

Where does love originate?

We humans have learnt what is love because we are first loved by the one who initiates such feelings, probably you will ask, “who that is?” and the answer is, “He is our creator and God.”

We all know what love is because of him, so anyone who doesn’t know how to love doesn’t know God because God is love.

1 John 4:8 Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.

Life becomes beautiful because of love, even it sometimes requires sacrifices and pain, but we all are willing to risk everything just for the sake of our love.

Almost everything had been created out of love, and we the human beings have been the result and the product of it, so if we are grateful enough we must do something to be worthy of being loved.

What is the importance of love?

There is no other most important thing in life other than having a love in our hearts, that’s why anyone who has no love on their hearts are sometimes considered to be not human at all.

Without the presence of love there will also be no affection, and if there is no affection, there will also be no attachment. Without attachment there will be no care, and without a care there will be no feelings. Without the presence of feelings, there will be no way for love.

So love is very important just for the simple reasons that you fall in love because of the magic feelings of love.

How do you know that you fall in love already?

In the very first state of falling in love with someone, there is a great feeling that can get really stronger, together with the sense of excitement that is so hard to be described in words.

You’re days are full of inspiration while thinking of her, a minute of waiting seems as long as an hour, and the hour will be as long as a day.

Once you experience falling in love with the right person, you will feel the kind of feelings which is so unique and indescribable.

You’re day is full of excitement and you’re whole day will be complete once you meet her or him, so this is how amazing and wonderful to be falling in love with someone.

Why should we fall in love?

A simple answer is that, to fall in love has a relationship with how your mind works. If you are single and without any relationship or partner then your mind will be set or always hunting for your long desired partner.

Even if whether we like it or not in a relationship, you will still be inevitably falling in love with the person whom you know that fits to the kind of person which matches your criteria.

The basic reason why we fall in love with someone, is lying in the key factor of finding out the best of compatibility.

There is and unexplained mystery behind falling in love, but what normally makes us feel such wonderful feelings is our awareness that they too have fallen in love to us as well.

Who should you fall in love with?

It’s a little harder in a relationship specially if you are with someone whom you can hardly get along well with each other.

If you are looking for someone to fall in love with, you must be ready and prepared for whatever surprise you may find with him or her.

To fall in love with someone, you must know where you are standing, you should ask a question from yourself, why I have this feeling? Why I fall in love with someone? Does he love me or I am just loving alone by myself.

We don’t choose if with whom we should fall in love, but what really has happened is that, love has come in an unexpected time in our lives.

There is a thrill in loving with someone and it’s a very beautiful experience to have loved, but one thing we should make sure that we are not loving all alone.

It’s not right to fall in love with someone whom not loving you back because real love is learnt because of the awareness that we are also truly love in return.

How do we know that we are truly in love with someone?

The very first way to find out if we are really loved by someone is if we like the person. It’s one of the things to consider so that we will know that we are in the right person to love, because we are all familiar with the feelings, and the most important thing to do is to find out that the person you love is also loving you.

A real love, doesn’t have the attitude of being possessive, however, real love is based on a being fond and with selfless admiration towards the person being loved.

We always value them, and we always wish them happiness and joy, even up to the point of giving our own happiness to them just for the purpose of making them happy.

In a real love we say, “I love you,” without expecting in return but hopeful to be love on the same way.

To fall in love is one of the most beautiful things in life, and one of the scariest things you can do, because once you’re in love with someone, it’s hard for you to imagine if the person you love could not be your forever.

Love is love and no other beings can understand it except those who are in love.

If you want to know that someone is truly loving you, pay close attention in whatever he says to you and learn to appreciate it no matter how little is the thing that he shared, because sometimes when the person who is in love he will say something that may sound like stupid and irrelevant, but it means a lot to him for you.

Sometimes he will say, “I love you,” in a not right timing but even though he sounds careless in expressing about it, but one thing is for sure, his feelings is genuine and true.

What is the biblical insight about falling in love with someone?

In the very beginning of creation, man was first made and then the woman out of the rib of a man, in other words the woman is coming from a man, so the man and woman have been in one body which is with a man.

Genesis 2:21-23 So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh.

22 And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man.

23 Then the man said, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.”

To fall in love is a way of expressing and describing one’s emotional state when the joyful feelings of what is presumed to be love.

Falling in love is not being specified by the bible, but loving someone is one of the words that is kept in being repeated many times specially in the new testament.

In the bible love is introduced as God, and to love God is a sort of obedience, and to be committed to his commands, than being dealt with emotion

So the bible’s point of view regarding love is very different compared to the love that most of us have known, and we can only prove to God that we love him by loving those who are around us specially your brothers and sisters.

Therefore, not loving your brothers and sisters whom you have seen will be counted by God as not believing in him, for the very simple reason that if you can’t love them whom you have seen, how can then you love God whom you don’t see.

1 John 4:20 If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot[a] love God whom he has not seen.

There is a mystery behind falling in love, to love is the will of God and it is he who moved us to love, by initiating through being the one who first loved us.

1 John 4:19 We love because he first loved us.

God is the source of all love, if we happened to fall in love, it is the power of God who let us love because God is our first love.

Revelation 2:3-4 and you have persevered and have patience, and have labored for My name’s sake and have not become weary.

4 Nevertheless I have this against you, that you have left your first love.

So falling in love can be one of the signs even though not all, but mostly that he or she is from the Lord, because a prudent wife is from him.

Proverbs 19:14 House and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.

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Health Is Wealth.

What do we mean by health?

There is no greater happiness than being healthy and strong, that’s why we can say that, health is wealth.

Health according to the bible can be obviously seen from the eyes, because the eyes are the lamp of the body, when your eyes are looking healthy, your whole body will also be full of light.

Luke 11:34 Your eye is the lamp of your body. When your eyes are healthy, your whole body also is full of light. But when they are unhealthy, your body also is full of darkness.

But health according to science is a state of social well-being, mental, and physical, where there is no presence of infirmities and diseases.

The meaning of health is evolving as the times go by. The biggest threats to a vigorous life were the viral ailments, the bacteria, the incurable diseases, and most specially the most horrible virus nowadays which is the world’s known coronavirus or COVID-19.

The biblical insight about being healthy is really pointing out the importance of good health, that’s why it is mentioned in:

3 John 1:2 Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.

However, the bible is not only talking about one thing but two different things which are dealing with physical and spiritual. And that the reason why Apostle John is citing some words at the very end of the verse which says, “your soul is getting along well.”

Physically healthy

Our physical health is referring to the state of our body, so when you see people who are physically healthy, it normally signifies that they themselves are taking care of their health through proper nutrition, adequate hours of sleep, and exercise of the body.

Therefore, they are healthy and strong, without any diseases and illnesses, because this is the result of their being health conscious, in other words they’ve got what they wished for.

So being physically healthy is to be able to carry out the everyday routine, with the full vigor and alertness, without being exhausted because of the sufficient energy to enjoy the free time in order to be ready if in case there will be an unpredictable emergencies to encounter.

Holistic Health –is commonly described as the things related to ideas that being whole is more than the total of its parts, which means, that the fullness of something should be taken into consideration instead of taking things as just part of it.

In the holistic health, the majority of them are putting their hands as an individual, through the informed and mindful choices, self and home study, education and a way of life that is in conjunction with nature.

In holistic health, the modalities and the practitioners are built to assist the individual as a whole being in the healthiest way of living.

To be healthy emotionally

Speaking about emotional health, it is of positive psychological activity in the minds. This is considered as an extension of health about mentality, it is a high functioning tip of the feelings, thoughts, and behavior that is making up in both the outer and the inner worlds. It also covers the overall experience of goodness in what we feel, think, and do through both lows and highs of life.

The success in health, relationship, and in the work are a result that is brought by an emotional health.

Some people believed that it is the success that made a lot of people happy, while others have told that it’s the other way around.

Most of the happy people are more determined to aim towards their goals, they are courageous enough in attracting others with their enthusiasm and of being optimistic.

Being healthy emotionally doesn’t mean that you have no problems at all, and you’re always happy, however, you’re only difference among others is your awareness of your own emotions, whether it’s positive or negative.

When you’re emotionally healthy, it means you are able to handle any difficult situations, and you know how to manage your emotions, in dealing with everyday situations and stresses.

Social activeness and healthiness

The very popular definition of social health is of being a person who can get along well with other people irrespective of nationalities.

It is the person’s level of support from others and from institution around them. The nicer is the way of dealing with the society is the better specially when it comes to offering every citizen the equal opportunity to get the access to the services and goods which are critical to be able to work as a contributing member of the community.

In other ways, social health is referring to your ability to make a thing which is full of meanings in a relationships, and it requires your attentions with other people.

Spiritual Healthiness and peacefulness

Not too many people are aware of the health of our spirit or inner being or our life and energy.

We’re going about our everyday tasks without ever giving another chance of thoughts on this very vital sides of our lives.

Most people’s spiritual health is invisible and intangible, whose inner being and the notion of spirit is just as pure as the idea or the abstract concept, which is the thing that no one can monitor and measure as easy as calorie count and blood pressure.

And yet our spiritual health is so important and real, like so many other measurements for our well-being.

It is normally the lack of the advance devices and the modern techniques which is used to track physical illness, we are dependent upon the most common way of self-examination just so that we can be able to gauge our proper health levels specially in our spiritual health.

Spiritual health can involve your religious beliefs, and sometimes it is not just like that. In order for you to be spiritually healthy, you must also put into consideration your sense of purpose, why you exist? What is your duty being a human being created by God?

Speaking of God, the bible is providing to us the meaning of our existence and about our duty why we exist, one of those reasons is what we can read in:

Ecclesiastes 12:13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.

Mental alertness and healthiness

It is the psychological level of well-being, or the mental illnesses’ absence. Anyone who is in the state of functioning in a behavioral adjustment and emotional level of satisfaction.

Base on the perspective, mental health may include as an individual’s positive psychology, and it is the capability to appreciate life and to make an equilibrium between the activities and efforts of life to achieve psychological resilience.

The emotional and the intellectual potential of someone among others, which is the one who further states that the individual’s well-being is encompassing to the realization of their abilities, which copes in the usual stresses of life, the output of work, and the things they have contributed to their community.

The difference among cultures, the assessments, and the competition among professional theories, it all affects in how someone make a definition about “mental health.”

When we talk about mental health, this means that it’s not just a simple needs of a mental disorder, but it is the inclusion of the ability to meditate, concentrate, reasoning, and thinking.

So once again the mental health is commonly defined as a state of well-being where someone realizes his or her own abilities, he can manage with the common stresses of life, he can productively and fruitfully work, and most of all, he is able to make a contribution to his or her community.


Our health is our best wealth, so we need to have a closer attention to it, and we need to understand how come there is sickness, and what is the cause of it? And why we can be healthy.

Yes! we all have our appointed time set by God as it is written in:

Hebrews 9:27 And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:

Even though we have our appointed time set by God to die, still there is an exemption to it, base on our performance on earth, if God will see that you are still useful to him, in the sense that you are doing something which is pleasing to his eyes, there is a possibility that according to his will you will have your life be lengthen a bit just like what is written in:

Proverbs 10:27 The fear of the Lord adds length to life, but the years of the wicked are cut short.

So to fear the Lord which is to follow his commands will add length to your life, meaning if God will see you doing his will, he will not let you rest yet until you are tired of doing it, but if he sees that you are willingly doing it for the sake of your faith in him then you will deserve to be used.

We as human being have feelings and same as God, if we have a plant in our yard and if it’s flowering so much, we are so pleased to look at it. Therefore, we take care of it by watering it and even putting some fertilizer in order for it to continue producing flowers as it is so pleasing to our eyes and even to other people around us.

But once that particular plant will stop to flower, our care for it will get lesser, until we decide to cut it because it’s not producing flowers anymore which made us pleased, and now this plant became useless.

That is Based on human feelings, so it is the same with what God wants us to do, we must do something that could please our creator, and in exchange, we will have a guarantee of protection according to his will, and he will add length to our lives as long as we will keep on letting him use us as his amuser by doing what pleases to him.

A God fearing man is full of common sense, he has knowledge and wisdom given by God, and he will not rely that he is being protected but he himself is also taking care of his own health.

There are best and worst foods, which do you choose? Of course, a God fearing man will have to evaluate all the foods and drinks that he is putting in his mouth if whether this can do good or bad to his health.

So the food you eat will matter a lot to the length of your life, and make sure you know what you are putting in your mouth.

Even though we have an appointed time set by God, you also need you make a goal of what age would you like to die, and in this way, you can start to evaluate all the food you put in your mouth if this can help you achieve your goal age of dying, and most probably you will be cutting some bad vices because they are life reducer and not adder.

I am considering the richness and fame as a true success in life, because once I am sick with incurable diseases they can’t help me, but what I consider success in life is to know the real meaning of life, to believe the existence of God, to believe that there is heaven and hell, and to believe that I will be judged according to what I have done on earth while alive.

Luke 12:15 And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man’s life consisted not in the abundance of the things which he possessed.

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Special Needs Child Care

Some people are thinking that they are unlucky to have a special needs child, and what they don’t know is that they should be thankful instead to have them because there are many benefits from them spiritually which I will be explaining in this article with biblical supports that after reading the whole content you will come out to realize that you are really very lucky indeed.

As a form of introduction, the question is, who made the dumb, or deaf, or seeing, or blind? And all the people with physical and mental deformities and disabilities?

Let’s read the conversation with God and Moses about his capability for preaching, and Moses said he is not eloquent, he is slow speaker, and with slow tongue.

Exodus 4:10-12 But Moses said to the Lord, “Oh, my Lord, I am not eloquent, either in the past or since you have spoken to your servant, but I am slow of speech and of tongue.”

11 Then the Lord said to him, “Who has made man’s mouth? Who makes him mute, or deaf, or seeing, or blind? Is it not I, the Lord?

12 Now therefore go, and I will be with your mouth and teach you what you shall speak.” 13 But he said, “Oh, my Lord, please send someone else.”

So we have now an idea why there are people like those with special needs, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that all of them is an act of God because mother’s has to be also responsible for the cause of these disabilities and deformities, all this we will tackle as we move further in this article.

What are the causes of it according to the study of the experts regarding kids with special needs?

There are many factors that causes to it, some of them are of the genetics, birth defects, and some causes are difficult to be explained, on why child has to be called as with special needs.

There are kids who have a little learning incapability and while others are suffering from severe retardation which anyhow are all children with special needs.

Special Needs Child Care:

Child with special needs is described as an individual who needs assistance for its disabilities which is maybe related to medical, mental, or psychological.

Childs with special needs are those people with cerebral palsy, dyslexia, dyspraxia, asperger syndrome, down syndrome, blindness, deafness, autism, etc.

The causes of the kids with special needs will vary upon them, but their obvious signs are noticeable from their behavior and development.

Some of them are having some delay with speech learning, communication skills, but other causes of their learning is from a genetic abnormality, injury, or impairment due to some diseases in brain like meningitis.

Some of them can be noticed at early age but some will be later, just like autism at the age of 6 months they are totally just the same with some other normal child, because their obvious signs can fully be detected at the age of 14 months.

Autism children spectrum normally show a range of difficulties in communication which from mild to profound.

It is sometimes been a quite unique disorder and mostly described as an impairment of communication, social interaction and imagination.

Brain injury and cerebral palsy– these are the kinds of children who are experiencing brain injury, while they are still in the womb, damage will continue to grow and develop during childhood, and then the other parts of the brain may compensate for the damaged areas, but as this process develops, the child may be left behind academically by their difficulty with the others.

Cerebral palsy- this is the so called permanent movement disorder which normally noticed in the early childhood. It’s symptoms include poor coordination, tremors, weak muscles, and stiff muscles.

There are maybe some problems with vision, swallowing, speaking, hearing, sensations, etc.

The very first signs of babies with cerebral palsy are those that can’t roll over, sit, crawl or walk as how other children of their age.

Other signs includes problems with thinking or reasoning, and most symptoms are more noticeable on the first few years of their lives.

Developmental Dyspraxia – Child with dyspraxia will often having difficulties in speech, the child can’t perform well than expected in their daily activities and appears to be moving clumsily.

Dyspraxia can cause a lot of problems in kids. Some of these may be obvious at an early age, but some of them may only be noticeable as your child is getting older.

Genetic Syndromes – is a behavioral phenotype, or characteristic pattern of psychological symptoms knowing that this person has down syndrome and mostly hallucinating and normally with major depressive disorder.

The genetic tests can always give us a diagnosis to the unexplained disorder. As long as we have the diagnosis then we can have the idea on how to plan our actions accordingly.

There are numerous types of syndromes but mostly it is associated with communication difficulties.

The very common categories of children with special needs are as follows:

*PHYSICAL – which includes allergies and asthma, juvenile arthritis, multiple sclerosis, epilepsy, muscular dystrophy, leukemia, etc.

Emotional or Behavioral – this is the sort of special needs that an attention deficit or hyperactivity disorder, depression, anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, dissociation, post-traumatic stress disorder, etc…

Sensory-impaired – there is the disorder which cause them blindness, deafness or limited hearing, visually impairedness.

Developmental – which are the auditory processing disorder, visual processing disorder, down syndrome, dyslexia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia, dyspraxia, aphasia or dysphasia and the very well-known autism.

Epilepsy – those with epilepsy will have the chances of having a recurring seizures. Seizures are by the way, the cause of sudden burst of electrical brain activity and thereby creating a temporary disruption between the brain’s cells message signals.

A child might have been born with special needs, and some of them have developed it on the late part of their lives.

Down syndrome – it’s an extra chromosome in a person’s DNA and it normally occurs by chance in a conception. Down syndrome is a genetic condition of the known extra chromosome.

The physical characteristics that accompanies down syndrome, is complicating to the visual or auditory problems, thyroid disease, and mostly commonly the children with down syndrome will experience delays in educational development and mobility.

Those are just the examples of the kinds of children with special needs, and there are many more to mention, and what I am showing here are just few of them for at least I can give you some slight ideas about child with special needs.

The age will matter upon the parents for a possibility of a child born with special needs specially on the mother side when she is already above 40’s she will be starting to have a chance of having an autistic child, than mothers who are below the age of 21 and above.

Yet no matter what happens, no matter how old you become pregnant, it is still in the will of God of what kind of baby you are going to have whether the healthiest baby without any physical deformity or the baby who is born to be a child with special needs.

So whatever we have, if it’s a baby of course it’s human being with life and love and so he deserves to be loved as he is being loved by God.

Therefore, aborting babies is one of the seven acts which is abomination or hateful to the Lord

Proverbs 6:16-19 These six things the Lord hates, Yes, seven are an abomination to Him:

17 A proud look, A lying tongue, Hands that shed innocent blood,

18 A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet that are swift in running to evil,

19 A false witness who speaks lies, And one who sows discord among brethren.

The one in verse 17 of the above verses “Hands that shed innocent blood,” this is the abortion meant by God.

One of the very pathetic situations is to kill a helpless being, that the baby inside the womb has no capability to defend himself because he’s just a fetus or just a newly developed baby.

If an adult is being killed before it happened I am sure he first made a lot of struggle to defend and to retaliate the opponent just to protect himself, so even though he died but it was not easy killing unlike a baby in the womb that is helplessly innocent of being killed.

So even if it’s known to be having a physical deformity or any possible special needs, if will be aborted upon being seen by the new innovation technology, it is a very big sin and hateful in the eyes of the creator and the owner of all lives, if we decide ourselves to kill them because of our thinking that they will just suffer if we will let them born with such status or situation.

God has his own reasons why there are babies born with physical or mental defects, there are reasons for everything you maybe can’t understand but it’s all with the purpose.

About 2090 years ago, Jesus was asked about whose sins that caused a man to be born blind, and here’s the verse below about it.


John 9:1-3 And as Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was blind from his birth.

2 And his disciples asked him, saying, Master, who did sin, this man, or his parents, that he was born blind?

3 Jesus answered, Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him.

So for some babies with physical deformities have happened so that the works of God can be made manifest in him.

As we all know in the beginning of this article that he created all beings, babies who are healthy and those with physical and mental disability, God had made them all. As it is written in:

Exodus 4:11 Then the Lord said to him, “Who has made man’s mouth? Who makes him mute, or deaf, or seeing, or blind? Is it not I, the Lord?

Little children are very special by God, because they are registered in heaven, those little children who died are all going to heaven, that is the reason why he told the apostles when they forbade the little children from approaching Jesus as you can read it in the verse below.

Matthew 19:13-14 Then were there brought unto him little children, that he should put his hands on them, and pray: and the disciples rebuked them.

But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven.

Jesus said that the kingdom of heaven is for the little children, so all of them are surely for heaven, which unless we can be like them we can’t enter the kingdom of God.

Why little children are said to be for heaven, no matter what kind of parents they have. It is because God is looking at the righteousness of each one of us, therefore, little children are exempted of it since they are unskilled in the word of righteousness as it is written in:

Hebrews 5:13 for everyone who lives on milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, since he is a child.

There was a big discussion from other bible reader about it, because they are thinking that because Adam had sinned, these little innocent children have also sinned which is not supported by the biblical verses.

The bible is clearly saying that it’s only the soul who sins shall die, and the son shall not suffer for the iniquity of the father as it can be read on the verse below.

Ezekiel 18:20 The soul who sins shall die. The son shall not suffer for the iniquity of the father, nor the father suffer for the iniquity of the son. The righteousness of the righteous shall be upon himself, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon himself.

What is the other reasons why little children are going to heaven, it’s because little children have no capacity to believe yet, and that is where now the children also with special needs are also going to heaven, for the very simple reasons that they too are like babies and considered to be babies since they don’t have the right way of thinking.

If we analyze the verse below very carefully we will understand why they are as special as that in the eyes of God the creator of all.

1 Timothy 2:14 For therefore we both labor and suffer reproach, because we trust in the living God, who is the Savior of all men, specially of those that believe.

So in the verse above, it’s plainly meant that the living God is the savior of all men specially those that believe, when God added the words “specially those that believe.

There are really people who can’t believe and those are the little children and those who are like children.

There are people on earth nowadays who are already adults but still behaving like a baby, and those are what we called the children with special needs.

The little children and those who are like little children, they are destined to heaven and they will not pass any judgment during last day.

Anyone who is registered in heaven have their guardian angels working 24 hours to protect them, that’s why we are told to not to despise to anyone of them.

Matthew 18:10 “Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.

If you happened to be having a member of your family with physical deformity, mental disability, little children, and all sorts of children with special needs, you have to be happy for it, and you are very lucky to have them, because since they are destined to heaven, and you take care of them, so there is a possibility that because of loving them God will forgive your sins and make you to qualify to go heaven just for showing love to these special people whom you happened to take care of.

Be thankful and happy to have them in your house because you have the full protection of their angels from heaven and you will be blessed because of them.

So for taking care of these little children and the children with special needs, you are not aware of it that you have entertained angels in your house because they are there with for all the time to protect since they are of heaven.

That is the same when you show hospitality to strangers whom you don’t know that have angels with them so you have entertained angels unawares.

Hebrews 13:2 Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.

Angels duty is to protect those who fear the Lord, to fear means, to follow God’s commandment, but the normal human beings, a lot of us failed to do so, thereby, the only sure people who can follow it are those who have no capacity to do like little children and those who are behaving like a children even though they are already adult in the age.

The verse below says that the angels of the Lord encamps around those who fear him and delivers them.

Psalm 34:7 The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear him, and delivers them.

You now know the secret if you want to be blessed and to be having the close protection of angels in your house, take care of the little children and those with special needs, then you are sure of being protected by angels because of them.

Show to them your genuine love, love them as you love yourself, and you will be blessed for that act of holiness, and you will have the bigger chances of being pitied by God, that during the final judgment he will count it as good deeds of yours.

I hope you learn something from this article, if you have any questions, comments, or maybe some suggestions, please feel free to write them below and I will be more than happy to hear it.


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Never Give Up Motivation

When we’re a kid we had some wishes of how we wanted to be when we grew up, but most of them was not what we achieved today, because those were just a sort of childhood dream.

Anyway, there might be some cases that they got exactly what they dreamt of.

But generally or most of them, have a very different profession which was not what they wished upon growing up.

Actually, whatever dreams you are having from childhood up to now, if you will only put a focus and determination to it, you will have a bigger chances of achieving, because if you believe in yourself, you will become what exactly how you wish to be.

Never give up, and what do you have to do to succeed? All you have to do is to make a goal in your life, and start right now doing it, start right now in working on it, and never give up and never lose hope on your dreams no matter what burden that is pulling you down.

Everyone of us is sometimes reaching in the level of our lives where we can be faced with the choice of carrying on or to give up.

Life is like a climbing competition that once you are tired and decided to stop and just rest on the middle of the mountain and wishing that your shoes will take you to the top, you will end up losing and failing with your desired dream to win.

Climbing slowly is not bad because it is still better than not moving at all, you should have motivated yourself, with your reasons why you join the competition, why did you waste your effort and time to reach to the middle, if you just stop in there.

Therefore, whenever you feel like quitting, and you want some motivations to continue with your journey, here are the ultimate guides and reasons, why we should not give up.

1. If you wish for the best you should work hard on it.

There is nothing easier to do than doing nothing and just sit around and be idle and never wishing to obtain anything.

All the best things are those who are the most difficult things to do, that’s why not so many people are achieving their goals it’s because, they want to do only easier ones and losing their strive to succeed.

You may need to struggle for your way to achieve in your desired goal or career, you may need to exert much effort, but the good thing is, at the end you will be prized according to how much diligence you put on it.

2. Success could not be earned in an instance

No matter what field are you, your endeavor for success will always be needing time to wait, there will be perseverance to be spent, and most of some unavoidable setbacks will come your way as you move on with your goal.

Even in all kinds of sports, there is always a struggle and determination to win before winning can be experienced.

All winners have won because of their faith that they could make it, and all winners were been losing for many times before they finally get the trophy as the reward for their efforts to win.

Perseverance Is the persistence in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success.

You should know how to persevere and to dedicate yourself with single-mindedness to do it.

Your perseverance is something which you can only learn once you are in the situations of hardships.

If you have never experienced failure, you can’t have any idea about how to get up, and every time we get up from falling down, we grow a little stronger and we will become so able of achieving our desired targets for success.

Success will just be within your reach if you are willing to reach out for it.

All winners are courageous, they never lose their enthusiasm until they obtained victory.

Winners are never a quitters and while quitters can never be winners because of their pessimism.

3. Keep trying and then failed is much better than failing to try.

There are many situations in our lives that we have regretted why we tried it, because such attempt had made you to be embarrassed, and lost your courage to do it again due to the outcome which is so difficult for you to accept.

Most people when they failed they are only looking at the negative side of it, without knowing that failure have made them boost their confidence, that because of encountering such experience they became so brave to face the challenge of life to succeed.

That is the reason why there are a lot of people who failed, it’s because they experienced failures they are now losing their self-confidence to try again.

The greatest barrier to success in any field or industry is the fear of being failed, so if you are wise enough, you have to study the reason why were you failing? What to do to avoid such failure?

How do you avoid the fear of failure? It is by trying again and again until you succeed? You don’t know what you can do until you try.

So don’t lose your hope, do something even just a little thing, because giving up is not the solutions of it, however, it’s your being optimistic and the affirmation that you can do it all, is what can make you achieve, if you just believe.

4. Success is not a something but it is a big thing.

We have to always put it into consideration that our resolution to succeed is having the more vitality than any other things.

If you are not resolute and you give up, you will not discover in yourself how far you can accomplish in life, rather than being determined that nothing is impossible, your chances of success is more sure.

There are many instances in our lives that we almost give up but later we found that behind it there is a big achievement to be obtained and if you have quitted you will not become who you are today.

So, many people in our times who have been experiencing success, have become so thankful for their failures because it leads them to the best one that they have never thought getting.

5. You need to find out first the right direction before aiming your target.

Success in the beginning can’t be guaranteed, it requires much trial and error. You have to establish your strategy on how to reach it, and you may encounter some hindrances along the way, so if you are not that optimistic you will not carry on with it and just prefer to stay effortless because of thinking that you have no other choice.

Your goal is very important when aiming the direction of your target, you must be confident enough to hit it without fear of missing, and you will get your maximum capability to make it.

The common tricks that most successful people are using since before and up to our times is that, they never give up even after many failures, they just changed their ways of approaching it and tried again till they succeed.

6. Your future doesn’t depend on your past.

Many failure stories that have come out to be a big success later, just like many people who were been just an ordinary person but later had shocked the world for the unbelievable achievement that made them to be considered as one of the riches in the world.

So one formula for success is not to have fear in failure, because once you have this kind of mentality, your level of optimism and confidence will go lower.

Those who are now in the top 100’s they have been starting from the very bottom at somewhere at the 10’s or lower.

So you don’t need to think that because you were experiencing failure or unhappiness it doesn’t mean you will not succeed or be happy anymore.

The first few attempts should not be counted as the finals or the last, you still have to continue trying and you should never quit.

All the successes in life was looking like just a failure in the beginning but later as the time goes by you have found it to be a tremendous success.

Failure from the past have taught us a valuable insight to do much better for the next try.

Your purpose for continuing is not to repeat the past, but to use the past as guide into how to make it better in the present, so the past can be the very best thing that will give the best future you want.

7. Failure is only when you give up.

When you do your best in order to achieve a thing but still you don’t get the expected result that you wished for, it doesn’t mean you are a loser, for as long as you do your best, whatever you’ve got is still part of achievement.

It’s still a great pride to try to fail than failing to try, so you still deserve compliments for your hard work and dedication to your effort to achieve your desired goal, just keep on moving towards your dreams until you will be successful.

Thereby, one of the greatest secrets for a successful life is not focusing behind what you are missing. It is by making the most of what is in you already, then after this you don’t need to look for the success because it is the success itself will come and find you.

Success is sometimes known to be connected with your action. Successful people don’t stop learning and working, they will maybe make mistakes, but they will never quit.

8. The temptation to quit is very strong right before reaching success.

As you have started your goals or projects, you tend to be energetic and strong to do everything, but as you are already in the middle to almost the end part of it, you will start to get tired and weary, you’ll start to lose energy, strength, enthusiasm, and until you will start of thinking to give up.

The final part is always the hardest, and that’s exactly when we start to feel of giving up. You already reach that far, so why you don’t try to see how it ends, be brave and excited about seeing the results of your endeavor, winning or losing doesn’t matter, so whether you lose or win you must be proud that you didn’t end up quitting.

Failure doesn’t finish a man, quit does. A man is not finished when he failed, he’s finished only when he quits.


9. Be yourself and don’t compare yourself to those who already achieved.

Be Never discouraged with the success of others, however, make them as your inspiration to strive to reach success.

You didn’t know how they get there, you didn’t know what hardships they were facing before they are able to be successful

Everything has started with an effort, there is nothing like a magic in this world. All successes started with a try, and when you try you are taking the possible risk of losing because there are only two choices, which are to lose and to win.

When you try there is nothing to lose and when you succeed you win everything, and this is what you will use as your motivational strategy to keep on moving no matter what happens.

Comparing yourself to others is only making yourself down and desperate, because you don’t know how many years they earned their successes while you just have started.

So it is better to be satisfied with what you have, and enjoy the blessing you received because there are more people who have the worst experience than you do.

Never compare yourself to them however, make them your model to get you inspired, in carrying on towards the successful journey.

Stand up and believe that you can, because your only supporter is yourself, and your best competitor is who you were yesterday. So make the full use of today as your best preparation for tomorrow.

10. Do what successful people are doing.

There are a lot of things to learn from watching other people, and learning their ways is the best idea to follow, since they are your living proof and inspiration to possibly achieve the success which you are dreaming of.

There are many success stories where you can get some ideas what they did to achieve, but it is also wiser to learn from the failure stories because you will also learn something about why they failed and then you will use it to avoid from happening to you.

When you feel like giving up try to remember why you started, what’s your reason for dreaming such success, and why you want to be successful, there are many reasons behind it, and most of it is about wishing for a brighter future for yourself and specially your family.

So you have now the best inspiration to achieve success, those people who are now successful were also experiencing failures, and if they stopped then because of discouragement, they could not be successful as they are today. So try to affirm it to yourself that if they were able to survive all the trials while striving for success, you can now have the reason to tell yourself that, since they didn’t give up and therefore, they are now enjoying success so I won’t be quitting as well.

If you fail while trying to achieve, then you don’t need to use the failure as an excuse to stop however, let it be your key to the door for success.

11. Consider your success from the other fields.

There are things that is good for them but not good for you, because every single person on earth we have our unique capabilities and talents, there is something they did that made them successful while no matter how you followed their ways to succeed you still ended up as failure, and there is also something you can do which they can’t so, to achieve success you should choose something you are very good at it, because we have different expertise.

We human beings love to be appreciated with what we do and we look for it. Some of us are working so hard towards craving for achievement of our goal, but our efforts to make seemed not resulting anything, there is no revenue and sales yet, in other words, there is nothing yet that you can brag as your achievement, there is nothing that you can be proud of thereby, you’ll be thinking of a possible frustration and then you give up.

The thing that can stop yourself from giving up, is to have a rest for a while, meditate on good things to do, by examining yourself of what are you missing, what tools you need more, which part made you a failure.

So once you found out the ways then you can proceed by trying and trying again until you succeed as what almost all successful people are doing.

Ask yourself of how would you like to achieve success this time, then let that positive feelings for success to sustain you to keep your energy and enthusiasm to succeed as you are in your journey for another try.

12. You should try the best way as possible

There are many successful people who were not good at their chosen career but they found themselves great at what they did after the failure.

If you keep on trying but still experiencing failure that means you have not found the right thing yet, so you don’t need to judge yourself as failure in life because you failed only in a certain area where there are more goals to focus for achievement.

In every moment that you try to fail, you will learn some valuable lessons for it, which will help you to do better for another time.

Try something new in your next attempt and never let the experience of failure stop you from future success.

When you don’t see any result yet, even you have been working it so hard on your goal, this doesn’t mean that you failed. You are maybe so close already to achieving than how you think it. So you have no reason to give up, think positively that you can do it, for you might be just very close already for succeeding.

You need to always remember that when there is a will there will be also a way because failure is always temporary, that’s how we say to it, and it is only giving up that makes it permanent.

I hope you have learnt something from this valuable article which I have shared to you, and if you have any questions, comments, suggestions, please feel free to write them below and I will be more than happy to hear it.


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The Best Husband

Upon searching the best husband you also have to start to look for a person who can be a responsible father to your kids.

So the characteristics of a loving husband is, he should find time for his wife and children and to be respectful for his marriage, and then his contribution is worth more than a great wealth.

In order for him to be considered as a loving husband, he should also be a good father, by spending his valuable time with the family and he should act as the best example among all the rest.

As we have understood, such husband whom we considered as a loving one, he needs not just a model husband but also a great father to his children.

Woman mostly wishes that her husband is unique when it comes to comparison to all other husbands on earth.

To be worthy of being called as a loving husband, he must possess all the best characteristics of a loving husband, like being faithful, caring, compassionate, affectionate, and considerate.

As we have known it that an ideal relationship of husband and wife, is really not possible that the two individuals who are living together, will not encounter any failure, arguments, or fight with each other.

Therefore, most couples so that they can avoid any conflict, they have to make adjustments in order for them to stay together, or else they can’t last for long.

No matter how loving is the husband if the wife will not cooperate, it is sometimes so difficult for them to be successful.

So wife is also playing a vital role for the success of the matrimony as wife is also assigned to take care of everything at home as well as the children.

Anyway, husband has the more responsibility to be having a role as he is being depended on by his whole family to provide for all their daily needs.

However, there are plenty situations nowadays, that it is both the husband and wife are earning and in some cases there are situations that a loving husband has unluckily having no job but still it can’t make him to be discriminated no matter what, as he is still the head of the family irrespective of who he is unless if he is proven to be irresponsible.

So the characteristics of a loving husband is explained in this article into many ways, as stated below for the husband’s qualities and characteristics.

So below are the ultimate characteristics and guides for you to qualify as a loving husband.

*He should be reliable: He must be his wife’s confidant and he must show that he loves her as he loves himself.

One of the best qualities of a husband is to be very good at dating, but when it comes to being a loving husband, most of them have failed.

Most commonly when a husband had some sexual relationship with many women from his previous status, they are likely to be lesser in faithfulness to their wives.

Man’s experience from the past will matter in his relationship in the present not unless if he transformed by the grace of God reforming his personality by being a God-fearing person.

*Husband’s commitment is very important: There is no woman that will allow to have some other woman to share with her man, and most woman are expecting that they are the only woman of her man.

As long as the husband will show to his wife love and respect, the wife will always be willing to make her husband as the only one in her whole life, but once a wife can discover some third party affair that is then no matter how she loves, she will mostly initiate for asking a divorce.

So faithfulness and loyalty are a vital factor for a lasting relationship, and once these are missing, harmony in a relationship can’t be expected.

*Faithfulness is very important: Woman’s only desire is her husband to fill her with love and affection and to make her feel that he has no other woman than she is.

The husband and wife’s precious moments together, and the happiness together to ease the stress and strains of daily life.

However, in reality it’s so difficult to do so, as one may not be in the right-thinking, yet one has to strive to insert some funny talks to amuse your wife while life is not in the understandable mood.

Cracking some jokes is very important in a relationship and it is beneficial to our health as it lowers blood pressure, it improves the oxygen flow to the brain and causing your mood to take a rest in order to feel a little less stress.

*To be good is to be a responsible husband: His first priority is to take care of his family, and to provide the necessary education of his children and the good health of the whole family, and to make sure that his wife is well taken cared of economically and emotionally.

A loving husband can give a freedom to keep his wife’s importance so that she also will feel that she is being respected as an individual.

Making her feel important is one of the acts of demonstrating his love towards his wife, which is resulting to a great feeling of happiness and joy in the relationship.

It is normal that in a relationship there will be some unavoidable circumstances, which is resulting into a fight and is very bad to be shown to children, but a loving husband knows how to control himself, and how to settle things to not to aggravate the situations.

So with this sort of situation, a responsible husband knows how to manage things and find a way on how to cool down and look for ways to resolve the issues and find solutions for it.

*He should be resourceful and dependable by his family: One of the great signs is that his wife will feel financially secured with him, for he is a success oriented person.

His wife will not be worried about what they are going to have for the next coming days because he already planned everything, if in case there will be some hardship to experience in financial matters, he can have ideas to find a way for it.

So it is part of the best characteristics of a loving husband to take care of his family, and to provide for his children’s proper educational support and he’s so concerned about the health and well-being of his family.

*He is being loved and respected by his family for his great honesty: Honesty is a very big factor for a loving husband and it is the completeness of his being upright or a person with integrity.

Honesty would mean a refusal to lie, steal, deceive, and to be faithful to his wife. Therefore, it results for being honored by his whole family.

His integrity is implying of his being trustworthy and his incorruptibility which implies of his being not capable of doing things in regard to untruthfulness, untrustworthiness, and a sense of irresponsibility.

So he is the happiness and pride of his family, because they can live together restfully, peacefully, harmoniously, and unanxiously.

*He has a very high self-esteem:

He has a subjective evaluation of his very own worth. He encompasses his own beliefs about himself as well as his states of emotions including triumph, pride, shame, and despair.

His self-conception is what he thought about himself as it is the positive or negative self-appraisal of how he feels about it, then he must feel good about himself, and respect his own self as he does to others specially to his family.

*A loving husband is a good follower and listener:

One of the best characteristics of a loving husband is his being good in following up things, he tends to be adherent, he gives his full loyalty and support to his family and even to others.

He is strongly attached with either to his wife and family or maybe for the beliefs of the others, in other words he is obedient and courteous.

He loves to listen more to his wife than talking, when listening he always so attentive to it in order to make sure that he gets the right message of what they are talking about.

There is no doubt of his being a good listener, but it is normal that he expects to be listened too when he is the one talking. So it’s just a matter of give and take between couple.

*He has a sense of adaptability:

He possesses a quality of being able to adjust in every situation, he has the ability to change something or oneself to fit to occurring changes. He has the ability to cope with any unexpected changes of wife’s moods and to all the members of the family.

In other words, he’s able to adapt himself into any given situations. He can easily set aside some time with his family and to up bring of his children and he also renders adequate attention not only his spouse’s needs but also to the rest of the family.

He must be able to handle all sorts of situations in the family specially in dealing with financial crisis.

*He obtains a sense of insensitivity:

He knows what to do when it comes to sensitiveness, but it doesn’t mean he lacks the concern for the feeling of others.

It just means that he is quick to respond for any concerns specially in the matters within the family.

So even though he is insensitive, he too has the feeling of being hurt easily, but he knows how to overcome it and turn into positivity.

Therefore, if the husband is sensitive towards his wife’s feelings, this means he doesn’t like to hurt her and he’s careful on the way he treats her, because he understands the spouse’s needs when it comes to emotional and financial problems as well as on how to nurture the children.

Wife is expecting the husband to support and to sympathize towards her feelings. So he’s insensitiveness is applied towards his family specially to his wife, with both meanings positive and negative in order for him to get a long well with his wife and children.

The characteristics of a loving husband requires a lot of patience, understanding, compassion, love, consideration, etc, .

He must be good in communicating with his wife in order to create a healthy relationship between spouses.

He should know how to build trust between each other, and he knows how to get rid of all sorts of problems that can cause misunderstanding.

So then it’s easier for them to avoid arguments, which is the most common possible cause of all fights and break-ups and for worse cases up to asking divorce.

No matter how busy you are, you must take some time and set aside schedule to be spent with your wife and children, because your wife needs your attention.

Even though we all have our own space allocated, we should always make sure that our responsibility towards our wife and children are our obligations so they don’t owe you something for taking care of them because it is a duty as husband and father of your children.

To be a God-fearing husband is the best of all, and he is fully equipped with all the good characteristics because the bible is never lacking any advice and reminders of how to be a loving husband to his wife as it is said in:

Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.

A loving husband will pay full respect to his wife and he must be willing to give his wife her full conjugal rights as his wife too to her husband, as the bible clearly emphasizing it in:

1 Corinthians 7:3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.

That is the reason why God-fearing husband has no comparison, because to fear God means to follow God’s commands and the commandment of God for husbands is this:

Ephesians 5:25-28 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her,

26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word,

27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.

28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.

I hope I am able to share to you a valuable article about the characteristics of a loving husband. Therefore, if you have any questions, comments, or reactions, please feel free to write them below and I will be more than happy to hear it.


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Kinds Of Relationship

There are many known meanings of the kinds of relationship, and the most common are the way in which two or more people are connected with each other through the feelings, concepts, emotions, state of being, etc.,

There are not so many kinds of relationship that we have to include as part of our lives. It’s the care, love, to be affectionate and committed, so these different types of relationship will make us relaxed and happy with whatever situations we are.

So based on the facts, the value of a relationship will also make you give more importance with your relationship.

The types of relationships between people.

Relationships with families.

Even though there are a lot of so called relationship but the closest ones is always the relationship between you and your members of the family like father, mother, children, brothers and sisters, etc.

Talking about relationship it always involves to people with whom you are related in many ways.

These people are normally those who are within your house premises, these are your closest family, and including those distant relatives, whom you have shared a strong unity as you have with your mother, father, and children.

These are all connected into your other close families or relatives like uncles, aunts, cousins, grandparents, and other family relations from far away places.

The engagement with your family is playing a big role on your whole being, but some other people are closely attached to their relationships, while others prefer to be away from a distance from their relatives or members of the family, and this affects the person’s personality in different ways.

There should be no other closer relationship than of the family or relatives, but the closest is always the family which are the parents, children, and grandchildren.

Relationships between close friends.

Another close relationship that we should consider is the friends, fellow workers, and other, and other people whom we have a constant communication and it is termed as intimate friendship.

The closeness of friends are sometimes closer than our family, and this kind of relationship is playing a major role in directing our lives to a better way.

Therefore, the sort of bonding which we are keeping with our bond and friends that are drawing us into the person whom we are now.

A lot of people still depend on this kind of relationships, they took the most important decision of our their lives, so each of them are affected by them in this way.

Intimate Relationships.

An intimate relationship commonly means that there are two people who enjoyed their close relationship together.

This is in other words, these people who are sexually active also into some degree or passion.

People who are in this sort of relationship are also normally in a mutual understanding of each other.

There is no other more beautiful and promising relationship than this of a rewarding and yet a little complicated one.

The most common people who are directly addressed with this kind of relations are those of spouses, boyfriends and girlfriends.

This sort of relationships are filled up with much care, trust love, and understanding as these are the function which the sole responsible for the success or failure of the same.

This will always depend upon the relationship. The two partners, can build a healthy one as long as they will handle the ongoing challenges properly.

Relationships Related to Professions and Career.

It is not difficult for people to develop a productive, successful and a contented relationship at their own workplace, because of the many colleagues, superiors, subordinates, clients, customers, seniors, etc., whom these types of relationship will mostly happen.

So whatever situation it is whether about your possibilities of being promoted, arranging some interviews, increasing your personal spiritual knowledge, relationship at work is always of the highest importance.

Meeting the right people and creating a successful relationship at work will make a big impact for you to be able to achieve your desired goals.

Therefore, aside from familiarizing them, aside from recognizing them, it’s so important to have a close and healthy connection in order for you to gain their support and loyalty with your business.

Relationships with non-humans.

Another form of relationship that is almost as close as family is the owning of a pet, it is now becoming a common thing for many families nowadays.

As a matter of fact, having a pet has now become a part of many lives, the kind of relationship that you shared with them, has highly controlling our well-being and joy.

The impact of owning pets have has made a huge advantage in diverting the naughty moods of the kids into amusing them by letting them play with your trained pets.

For the parents who owned it, pet is for them a close companion, especially if the dog is trained to guide the disabled owner and people with special needs.

Lovely pets have brought a joy and a smile of the faces of a lot of families in the world, specially to those who are having no partners, for the only one child, and for the lonely old people.

Aside from this, by caring a pet, it can also develop an emotional and physical needs of them since they also develop love with those whom they always see around the house.

So owning a pet has a big contribution to many families to give them joy and excitement that there is someone whom never changes his love no matter what happens in your life.

Relationships from a distant.

Any relationship which requires two people to be away from each other, whether partners, friends or even those who only met in the web camera, and never have met yet in their entire life.

This sort of relationship needs a strong love, commitment, and respect of each other because when it comes to longevity, only very few of them have survived.

As long as both are faithful and loyal talking about lovers or husbands and wives who happened to be away from each other because of the unavoidable circumstances, relationship like this will still last for long.

All those relationships mentioned in this article have been gathered together for you to be able to have an idea on how the relationships have been differentiated.

All those relationships are made into one sole reason which “love,” in other words, without love it is impossible for you to last in every relationships.

So no matter what sort of situations do you belong on the types of relationships, it is always us to strive to make it a lasting one, or else you will always be only in a temporary relationships.

You might wonder why I include non-human relationships, it is because animal in the very beginning when God created the first man Adam, God was first bringing him animals for Adam to name them all, so meaning God had found it that animals could be a good man’s companion as it is written in the book of:

Genesis 2:18-19 And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.”

19 Out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the air, and brought them to Adam to see what he would call them. And whatever Adam called each living creature, that was its name.

But Adam did not find any of them to be a helper comparable to him:

Genesis 2:20-24 So Adam gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him.

Therefore, God created for him a woman out of his ribs, so that his joy would be complete.

And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. 22 Then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.

23 And Adam said:

“This is now bone of my bones

And flesh of my flesh;

She shall be called Woman,

Because she was taken out of Man.”

So I always agree with people who love to have pets in their home because there are really animals that are loving and friendly, because animals once you treat them well they will love you sometimes more than a human friends.

If you don’t have anybody with you at home, it is good also to have a pet to be your companion while alone.

I hope you learn something in this article, and if you like to read more valuable posts about relationships, you may check them out in this website your are perusing now.

You’re comments and suggestions are highly appreciated, and I will be more than happy to hear it.

May God bless you as always.


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